There is a saying that do not test love easily, just like do not easily test human nature, after a long test, the heart will be cold.
In order to test his girlfriend's sincerity, he deliberately concealed the identity of the rich second generation, and repeatedly tested his girlfriend, who passed the test, but he lost the happiness he once had.
The 25-year-old Kang Kang is a proper rich second generation, his father has opened several companies, he grew up in a honey pot.
By chance, Kang Kang met Xiao Jin, a young girl from the countryside of Hebei Who was the same age as him. The beautiful-looking and gentle xiaojin warmed Kang Kang like a spring breeze, and the two fell in love with each other and talked about love.
Kang Kang deliberately concealed the identity of the second generation of the rich, telling Xiao Jin that his family was not well-off, living in a rented house, and had little salary left after paying the rent. Xiao Jin did not care about Kang Kang's poverty and comforted him, poverty is temporary, as long as he works hard, his life will definitely get better.
Xiao Jin made Kang Kang feel that she was different from the girlfriends she had made in the past, and those who worshiped gold only valued his identity and money, and had nothing to do with feelings. Because he was injured, he was on guard, in order to test his girlfriend's sincerity, and in order to make himself feel at ease, Kang Kang thought of some ways.
On his girlfriend's birthday, Kang Kang specially bought a brand-name bag, saying that it was true, Xiao Jin was happy and distressed, blaming him for spending money indiscriminately. Once, Xiao Jin took a brand-name bag to the store for maintenance, and was told by the clerk that it was fake, which made Xiao Jin ashamed of himself in front of his friends.
Kang Kang said that this bag is originally fake, that is, he wants to test his girlfriend, whether he cares about the authenticity of the bag or cares about being with him.
Once Xiao Jin was at work, he received a call from Kang Kang, saying that his wallet was stolen on the bus, he had no money to pay the rent, could he lend him two thousand yuan, Xiao Jin quickly took the money and sent it to Kang Kang.
Kang Kang said that money can best test a person's sincerity, and making up such a lie is testing his girlfriend whether he cares about money or is in difficulty.
A few days ago, suddenly a stranger added a small gold QQ friend and asked some private questions, do you have a boyfriend? Can you be your boyfriend? Xiao Jin feels that the other party is bored, rejects the other party and informs her that she has a boyfriend.
Once Xiao Jin's mobile phone was out of battery, took his boyfriend's mobile phone on his own QQ, only to find that the stranger was actually a boyfriend!
What's more excessive is that Kang Kang also joined forces with friends to test Xiao Jin, because his girlfriend has always longed for life in Australia, and Kang Kang let his friend pretend to be back from studying in Australia to test whether his girlfriend really wants to be with him.
Through a series of temptations, Kang Kang saw the sincerity of his girlfriend and ended up happy, but Kang Kang's various behaviors made Xiao Jin feel cheated and not trusted.
After a period of dating, Xiao Jin found that her boyfriend spent a lot of money, a monthly salary of four thousand, a month to spend seven or eight thousand, or even tens of thousands, Xiao Jin was suspicious and asked her boyfriend where so much money came from, Kang Kang was vague, and found a reason to prevaricate.
In the relationship for more than eight months, Kang Kang once fell ill, Xiao Jin worked overtime until more than nine o'clock in the evening, despite fatigue to buy vegetables to make light meals for Kang Kang to eat, Xiao Jin's careful care made Kang Kang deeply moved, moved he confessed everything to his girlfriend.
It turns out that the boyfriend is a rich second generation! Xiao Jin did not have a trace of happiness, after knowing the truth, she was physically and mentally exhausted, thinking of the tricks of her previous boyfriend to test herself, Xiao Jin did not want to accompany this man to play the trick of the prince becoming a frog.
Xiao Jin said that she interacted with Kang Kang because she liked him as a person, and interacted with him with sincerity and trust, but what she did not expect was one so-called test after another, constantly consuming her trust.
Kang Kang revealed his heart that the reason for doing this was because of the influence of the people around him. He saw too many gold worshippers, in the name of love for material purposes, and would not pay their hearts at all. His parents divorced in the early years, and his father found a young woman twenty years younger than him, and Kang Kang hated this woman very much, thinking that she was coming for his father's money.
The matter of his parents brought him irrevocable concerns, he hated material women, and only by constantly testing his girlfriend's sincerity could he feel safe.
After knowing Xiao Jin, Kang Kang consciously concealed his family situation, fell in love with Xiao Jin as a poor boy, and constantly tested his girlfriend's sincerity, until he thought that his girlfriend passed the test, and then took the initiative to pick out everything.
Kang Kang did not think that there was anything wrong with what he had done, he did this just to see his girlfriend's sincerity and hope that his girlfriend could forgive him, but Xiao Jin was heartbroken and felt that there was no trust between the two.
epilogue:
In love and marriage, no amount of strong feelings can withstand temptation.
Jiang Fangzhou once said in the Round Table Sect that the most stupid thing between the two sexes is to test each other, which is meaningless and hurts feelings.
Feelings are like glass bottles, temptation is like taking a glass bottle to fall, falling once without breaking, falling twice without breaking, but it will always have a broken time.
Don't easily test your feelings, don't test your lover casually, no matter how sincere your lover, you can't withstand temptation again and again, doubt over and over again.
If you find that the other party values money and material things in the process of getting along, you can stay away from it instead of trying to test it, because it is meaningless and a waste of time.
Since you choose to be together, you must trust each other, love can not tolerate doubts, do not tempt.
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