In-depth understanding, in the past few years, the phenomenon of more men and fewer women in rural areas has become more and more serious, more and more young men are facing the problem of difficulty in marriage, due to the backward development of villages, many places have the idea of preferring sons to daughters in the past, and no sons feel that they cannot raise their heads in the village, so in the past era, many families also fought hard to have sons.
It is precisely because of this ideological concept in the past that the phenomenon of more men and fewer women and fewer marriages has appeared in rural and urban areas, and in recent years, the status of women has become higher and higher, and the ideological concepts of young women have also changed.
I remember that in the past, there was a phenomenon of more men and fewer women in the countryside, and many parents were worried that their sons could not find a partner, and they also began to worry about their children's marriage, and they would urge their sons to get married every year. By the time of the New Year, they could not hide from the marriage urged by the seven aunts and eight mothers-in-law.
But now, the author has also recently found a new phenomenon, that is, there are many elderly people in the countryside who want to open, and everyone is not in a hurry if their sons do not get married, nor do they urge their children to get married as before. What's going on here?
According to relevant statistics, there are many single men and women in our country, especially in rural areas, the data of young men and women is more than 20 million people than young women, and some thirty or more have not found a partner to start a family, and even those who have forty or fifty are still bachelors.
Coupled with these years, the dowry in the countryside has also become flavored, the additional conditions for marriage have also increased, marriage not only buys a car and a house, but also pays high parenting costs when giving birth to children.
Don't have any money yourself? I really don't have the ability to help my son, so I can only let my son make money on my sister's marriage, and I don't dare to say much. Even some old people can get married in order to have money for their sons, and when they are old, they have to go out to make money like young people, especially in multiple sons' families, and their sons will have to peel off several layers of skin when they get married.
Therefore, many elderly people have been urging marriage for many years, and after the enthusiasm has plummeted, they have never urged their children to get married every year as before, so they give people a feeling that everyone is not in a hurry.
So how to solve the problem of marriage difficulties in rural areas now?
The fundamental problem of marriage difficulties in rural areas is that there are more men and fewer women, and it cannot be eradicated without solving this problem. It is very difficult to solve it thoroughly, but according to the current situation, it can still alleviate the problem, the current rural economic development is backward, many people do not want to return to rural life because the village has no educational resources, the income is relatively low, if you can improve the economic income level of the villagers, then the living conditions have improved, naturally have money to marry a daughter-in-law, no longer have to worry.
In addition, some policies can be introduced to guide rural women who have entered the city to return to their hometowns to start a business, and if girls do not run to the city, then rural boys will also have the opportunity to find a daughter-in-law.
The last is to curb the phenomenon of high-priced dowries and comparisons, guide villagers to review rationality, do not compare, and do not raise the amount of dowry, then the marriage burden of young men is not so heavy, naturally do not have to worry about not marrying a daughter-in-law.
Of course, some people are not married may be related to themselves, if you have some vices then you must change in time, if these people do not change the bad habits that these girls do not like, then no matter how hard you try, you will not find a daughter-in-law. What do you think about this? Feel free to leave a message in the comments section.