Recently, everyone is very concerned about the national anti-epidemic situation, and there is a news that has attracted the attention of many netizens.
Here's the thing, there's a family of medical staff in Shanghai, where the mother and grandmother of a 2-year-old baby are medical staff, who have gone to the front line to fight the epidemic and haven't been home for almost a month.
The baby can only be taken care of by the father and grandfather at home, the problem is that neither of them can cook, the child has not had a normal diet for several days, the body is getting thinner, and the grandfather and the father are in a hurry, what can be done?
Fortunately, there is an enthusiastic neighbor in the community, she is a mother of 2 children, after hearing about this situation, she offered to cook for the baby.
Considering that the baby is still small and cannot be heavy oil and salt, the neighbor sister arranges different recipes every day and changes the pattern to make delicious meals for the children.
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The neighbor sister said that she was distressed about the child, and also felt that the medical staff was very hard, hoping to do her best to let the baby's mother and grandmother relax and fight the epidemic with peace of mind.
The baby also likes the meals made by the neighbor's sister and eats them with relish.
"Good neighbor feeding the 2-year-old cute baby of the medical family" quickly became a hot search, which was supposed to promote positive energy, but the style of netizen comments gradually deviated.
"If Mom and Grandma are not there, Dad and Grandpa can't support the children?" "Wives and mothers go to fight the epidemic, and men can't eat with their children?!"
Netizens are criticizing at the same time, but also for the mother, grandma feel unworthy: usually have to go to work busy career, after work also have to take care of the child and the other half, can imagine, the mother, grandma in this family to pay and hard work.
Widowed marriages gradually became the norm
Zhang Quanling once said in the "Strange Story" program: "Do you think that when you have marriage, you are not a single mother? ”
This sentence looks like a lot of women crying, obviously they have a husband, but they live like single, washing, cooking, hanging out, tutoring homework, and even working to support their families.
No, more tired than single, single only need to take care of themselves and children, and widowed marriage, but also to take care of the husband, the key can not find the wife; glasses can not find the wife; the son to go to the toilet to find a wife...
Some mothers complained: I obviously only gave birth to 1 son, but I became the mother of 2 sons.
In the variety show "The Man Who Does Housework", Wei Daxun's father's various performances made many netizens resonate deeply after watching it: "It's like my dad at home."
The two fathers and sons in the show, the place where they stay the most every day is the sofa, after eating the rice bowl chopsticks pushed, the clothes are obviously dry and do not see them collected, changing various postures Ge You lie down.
Finding that the clothes blocked the infrared light of the remote control, Wei Dad did not intend to get up to deal with it, but shouted Wei Daxun: "Move the clothes", Wei Daxun: "Why?" Wei Dad: "The remote control is not good!" ”
Wei's father rarely did a housework, but it became the scene of the disaster, and he extended the mop directly into the sink to wash.
On the other hand, Wei's mother, since six o'clock in the morning, she has been busy washing and buying vegetables, and after making the meal, she will bring it to the table herself and beckon the two to eat.
After eating, she began to clean up the mess non-stop, wipe the table, wash the dishes, and for half a day, I didn't see her take a breath.
When the host asked, "Aren't you tired like this?" Mother Wei sighed helplessly and said, "This is how traditional Chinese women are!" But I hope that the next generation, our future people, will not be like this. ”
In a good marriage, the husband never "helps" his wife with housework
A marriage planning network in the United Kingdom surveyed 3,000 married couples, trying to find the secret of maintaining the marriage from their marriage, and found that the details are the key to a stable marriage.
Many people in life think that as long as they are loyal to their other half, they can maintain the happiness of marriage. In fact, most people are disappointed in marriage and will divorce because of some inconspicuous small details in life, some trivial things.
As psychology professor John Gottman put it:
"The key to the success of a relationship is not in a candlelit dinner or on a romantic beach, but in the care of your partner, the care of the small moments of life." 」
He can see the hard work of your feeding in the middle of the night, sit next to him and let you lean on it; remember that you will cough as soon as it is cold, bring you a cup of warm water; know that you have to work overtime, will warm up a good meal in advance and wait for you to come home...
In a good marriage, the husband will never "help" the wife to do housework, they do not think that the housework is a matter for the wife alone, but two people jointly undertake, they will take the initiative to assume the responsibility of the family, face the chai rice oil and salt in life, and share all the bittersweet and bittersweet in the marriage.
1, love to do housework men, know how to hurt their wives
Someone said, "To see if a man loves you or not, it depends on whether he will do housework." "Men who can take the initiative to do housework know the hard work of doing housework, know how to hurt their wives, even if they are not good at housework, they will find ways to learn and share housework with their wives."
The wife stir-frys in the kitchen, the husband helps peel a garlic, cut some onions, and hand over a bowl; after eating, clean up the dishes and chopsticks to wash; the wife helps the children to write homework, and the husband washes some fruit and serves them to eat...
2, love to do housework men, know how to manage marriage
Studies have shown that families where men do not do housework have a 97% higher risk of divorce than families where men do housework!
Where the husband takes the initiative to undertake housework, the feelings of the husband and wife are generally very good, and the atmosphere of the family is also harmonious. The husband never does housework, which will reduce the wife's happiness, and in the long run, the frequency of quarrels between husband and wife will be very high, and eventually end in divorce.
Men who love to do housework know how to manage marriage, know the importance of their wives to the family, always care for their wives, and express them with actions, so that their wives are happy, and the family will be happy.
3, love to do housework men, the family is happy
Men who love to do housework, love their wives, and the harmonious relationship between husband and wife will subtly affect their children.
Parents are the child's first teacher, the father often does housework at home, the child will also take the initiative to help, the father's love for the mother, but also affect the child's love for the family.
A warm and loving family environment will give children the confidence and confidence to be happy for a lifetime.
Write at the end:
Housework and children have never been a matter for the wife alone, but for both husband and wife.
The husband takes the initiative to undertake housework with his wife, has a job in his eyes, knows how to think in a different position, and is the embodiment of the family's attention and responsibility, so as to make the family happy and the relationship between husband and wife more and more stable.