1, can not be used
No matter how much the two sides quarrel, remember that they must not fight, as long as they do not fight, there is still room for redemption. Once there is a fight, then both parties will feel cold, disappointed in each other, and feel discouraged, so it is difficult to think about the relaxation of the relationship
2. In the process of quarrelling, there can be no insulting, insulting and other behaviors.
Sometimes two people quarrel badly, they will not choose their words, say anything, and say insults unconsciously. Remember that you are scolding each other at the same time as you are scolding yourself, after all, you two are one family, once you scold, it involves each other's principles, the relationship between the two of you will deteriorate, the more troublemakers, such a marriage is not happy
3, can not be cold war
The Cold War is cold violence! The Cold War hurt the hearts of both sides even more, and if everything is held in their hearts, the misunderstandings and contradictions between the two sides will become bigger and bigger, but if no one says it, it will not be resolved, and it will intensify even greater contradictions in the future.
4, can not remember revenge, remember hate
Where is there no quarrel between husband and wife, there will always be times of disagreement in life, this time quarrel is normal, after the quarrel will forget it. Don't hate each other, because you two still have a long way to go in life. Learn to forget those unpleasant, two people in the later life will be relaxed, in order to live the second half of life.
5, after arguing with each other, we must learn to reflect
Sometimes, in some matter, two people are not quarreling, and this matter is solved! It is more that both people must reflect on themselves, find out the root cause of the problem, start from the root, and completely solve the problem.
6. Tolerance is the most advantageous weapon
To tolerate the other party is actually to let go of yourself. Two people are going to live a lifetime, clinging to one of each other's mistakes, both people are very tired, and they will not be happy.
