Immediately thirty years old, all thirty years old, ben four, everyone else is married, what should I do.
Many women, at a certain age or single, more or less, will have some anxiety in their hearts, some uneasiness.
Because they will be said to be older leftover women, because they will not know how to face the road ahead.
Every woman is an independent individual, but every woman, after all, lives in the crowd, will still hear some unfriendly voices from the outside world, and will still be more worried about her future.
No matter how much you enjoy being single, you will occasionally envy those couples, or think about your old loneliness.
In this regard, many people will say that it is not that they want to be single, but if they are not careful, they will reach that age.
When you have a certain age, or are alone, the future road, in fact, you can still choose.
Find someone similar and get married.
Older leftover women, it sounds like a woman is not young or single, it seems to be left behind.
In fact, it is just unwilling to settle down, unwilling to find someone to marry.
Because I have my own ideas and requirements for marriage, I will always have a persistence when others have entered marriage one after another, and I have always wanted to wait a little longer, wait for a person who really likes and likes my own opposite sex.
Waiting and waiting, if you are not careful, you are not so young, there will be some anxiety, and you can no longer be so calm.
At this time, if you really want to get married, there is really no way to bear a person to face the future, then we can follow our own hearts and quickly find such a person from our own side.
Just appropriately lower the standard, just maintain the minimum principles, find a person who can accept it, have a good character, and are relatively satisfied, and enter into marriage with him to build a family.
There is no special favorite, can find a relatively satisfactory, or more in line with the requirements, that is actually still good.
After marriage, don't always be anxious about horses, think of other possibilities, just focus on each other's body, put it in the family, live together, when each other can be loyal to each other, careful management, life will not be too bad.
Wait a minute and try to find a love.
If you are not young, but your own conditions in all aspects are really good, the requirements for marriage are relatively high, and you simply can't make it up with anyone, we can actually still insist on it for a while.
Even if we are barely with someone, what we bring will not be happiness, but it will only be unbearable.
Even if we marry a person, we have no way to tolerate it at all, it will be easy to separate again, and when we are separated, we will leave a lot of scars on ourselves, and we will not be able to fade away for a long time.
When we are that kind of person, we just want high-quality feelings, we just stick to it for a while.
Although the older you get, the lower the chance of meeting love, it is not completely impossible.
In this day and age, there are many people who marry before the age of thirty, and there are also many people who are still single after the age of thirty. When we have been waiting for someone, there may be a person who, like us, is also waiting for us.
However, since the age is not small, we must not just wait passively, we must take the initiative.
Take the initiative to let others know that they are single, take the initiative to let others introduce themselves, go into a larger circle by themselves, let more people see themselves, and give themselves the opportunity to say goodbye to being single.
Take care of yourself and plan for the future.
In the second half of life, marriage will be one choice, and being single can actually be another choice.
If we don't look forward to marriage at all, think that a person is very good, can enjoy solitude, and have a more casual attitude toward marriage, then from this moment on, we must know how to plan well for our future.
The best way to plan for the future, of course, is to take good care of your body, make yourself healthy, make money well, so that you can have more savings, even if you are a person, you can also face the ups and downs of the future.
This road of life, everyone is the same, will gradually grow old, and in the years of aging, whether it is a person or a family, the most important thing is that they must have a good body and have certain savings.
If you are not in good health and have no money, even if you have a large family, your life will not be better.
I am very healthy and very rich, so even if I am fifty or sixty years old, or even older, I will not look too panicked.
In the years of old age, even if you have children, have another half, and more, in fact, you still need to be responsible for yourself.
Only we can be responsible for ourselves, or when we can do a good job of being responsible for ourselves, getting old is really not so terrible, and we can still bear it ourselves.
In a woman's life, we must care about age, but we do not have to be trapped by age.
No matter how old we are, we can still have our own choices, and we can choose our own path.
In the end, you don't always have to ask others, just ask your own heart.
Anyway, no matter what choices you make, you will gain and lose.
What we have to do is not always fantasize about other possibilities, choose, just go down according to their own rhythm, firmly go on, in the days to come, to cross one obstacle after another.
To live as you want, to make yourself unrepentant in this life.
That's our own life, what others say, it's not so important, we like it, we think it's worth it, we can enjoy it, so it's already good.
Text/Tan Meng
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