Text/Ye Feifei yff
Figure/Originated from the network
I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional teacher, writing emotional texts that take the heart, hoping to use warm words to bring you some spiritual comfort.
Whether women love or not, in fact, is obvious.
A woman who is genuinely involved with you will devote herself wholeheartedly and will not retain it for you. And women who don't want to develop a relationship with you will definitely be defensive and will not pay too much.
Women don't love you, there are a lot of things that won't be given to you, and if they don't trust you, they will intentionally keep their distance from you.
Such a woman, it is difficult to open her heart to you, even if she is barely with you, she will not have the mentality of giving.
A relationship, if it is retained in love and full of calculations, is basically not long-term, and when it encounters a little setback, it may fall apart.
Therefore, if a man wants to know if a woman is truly in love, it can be seen from her attitude of giving.
Generally speaking, women have not given you these three things, most of them are not true love, men do not entangle.
First, never gave you an understanding
A woman truly loves you, she will definitely understand you, everything will be considered from your point of view, for your sake.
Such a woman will not make unreasonable trouble, and it will not let you have too much pressure, and it is more comfortable to get along with.
They will give you a lot of understanding, understand your difficulties, see your hardships, and be particularly gentle with you.
No matter what difficulties you encounter, women will stand firmly behind you and give you the best understanding and support.
Although she has limited things to do, her spiritual support for you will become your most powerful backing, the most gentle harbor behind you.
On the contrary, a woman never gives you an understanding, she will not be gentle with you, will count you useless, and once you can't give her the life she wants, her love will become unsteady.
Such a woman will not understand your hard work, even if you pay a lot and work hard outside, she will take it for granted and will never care about you.
Mr. Liu and his girlfriend have been in love for three years, and have always felt a lot of pressure, not from the hard work, but from her number.
Mr. Liu works in a company with a monthly salary of less than 7,000, has not yet bought a house, and has average living conditions. To this end, he made a special effort, hoping to make more money so that he could get married early.
He works during the day, goes out to set up stalls at night, and sometimes comes back in the middle of the night, which is very hard.
However, his efforts were not recognized by his girlfriend, but he suffered a lot of fall and grievances. The girlfriend didn't understand him, counted down his lack of companionship with her, couldn't even afford to buy a house, it was really useless.
Moreover, the girlfriend often compares him with others, saying who has made a lot of money and who has bought a big house, as if everyone is better than Mr. Liu.
Whenever he heard these words, Mr. Liu was very sad, and every time he chose to tolerate it, he was exchanged for ruthless criticism.
In the end, the two sides continued to contradict each other, and the feelings went to a strange road in the third year.
So, whether a woman really loves you or not, it's really easy to see.
The woman who loves you never bothers with you, but fully supports you and understands you. And women who have never given you an understanding, most of them don't want to continue to develop with you, and they are not true love to you.
Second, I have never given you trust
Nina O'Neill said: "Trust is the most important trait shared by two people in a marriage relationship, and it is indispensable for building a pleasant, growing relationship. ”
Whether it's love or marriage, trust is essential. A woman who truly loves you will definitely give you trust, and she will love you unreservedly and let you feel the most intimate warmth.
Such a woman, who behaves very really in front of you, will give wholeheartedly and share the responsibility with you.
Because of trust, she will stand firmly by your side, advance and retreat with you, and never abandon you.
And, she has no secrets about you and is very honest. In the process of getting along, she will make you feel particularly at ease and not have to worry about gain or loss.
On the contrary, if a woman is always careful with you, she always hides in front of you, either concealing her own faults or being unwarrantedly suspicious of you.
Then, she definitely does not trust you, nor can she give you the true love you want, and once she encounters a small setback, the relationship will easily collapse.
Mr. Jiang had talked about a girlfriend before, and he was particularly sorry for her, thinking that he could enter into marriage, and as a result, he broke up after less than a year of love.
The reason is that not long after falling in love, Mr. Jiang found that his girlfriend's mobile phone was always carried with him, and he was never allowed to touch it, even if he accidentally took it, she would be particularly angry.
At first, Mr. Jiang was not too careless, and later found that she often changed her password, changed her fingerprints, and always avoided him.
Moreover, whenever the girlfriend answers the phone, she will go to the balcony, and she is particularly defensive about him.
At first, Mr. Jiang did not care, but later found out that the girlfriend had been in contact with friends of the opposite sex.
Once, he was supposed to work late, but he came back early with a temporary power outage. As a result, downstairs, he bumped into his girlfriend with a man, and in an instant he understood everything.
So, if a woman is not truly in love with you, she will not give you the most basic trust, always be wary of you, hide something from your feelings, and make your infatuation a joke.
Third, refuse you to have physical contact with her
To truly love someone, body language is the truest.
If a woman truly loves you, when each other's feelings are fused to a certain extent, she must look forward to further development with you.
At this time, she will take the initiative to let go of her reticence, acquiesce to your physical contact with her, and cherish every hug with you.
She wants you to be closer to her, to give her love, to feel the sweetness and happiness of being with you.
Conversely, a woman's refusal to have physical contact with her shows that she is not yet at ease with you or doesn't love you that much.
Because I don't love you, I won't be intimate with you, I will resist all your contact behaviors, and I will have a strong defensive mentality against you.
No matter what you do, it is difficult to touch her, she does not want to develop a relationship with you, and she will not give true feelings, and once there is the right time, it may leave you.
The woman who truly loves you will love you unreservedly and will be eager to give you everything she has.
Even if you can't give her the happiness she wants now, she will firmly choose you and work with you to prepare for future marriage.
She will take the initiative to share it for you, will pay with you, and for future happiness, she will not mind your current conditions.
Such a woman really wants to develop a relationship with you and really wants to have a good future with you.
A woman who does not love you, even if you give her everything she expects, she may not give the truth.
At this time, if you want to have physical contact with her, she will definitely reject you and will not give you any chance.
When she gets along with you, once she can't see the future, she will probably deny you, as long as she finds a better man than you, she will leave, without a trace of nostalgia.
Therefore, for women who do not love you, men are best not to entangle and put it down as soon as possible, so as not to consume themselves.
Ye Feifei yff emotional message:
Carson McCullers said: "Love is a common experience that happens between two people. ”
Indeed, love is a two-way street, and if one party is not firm, or the love is not sincere, it is difficult to last.
This requires men to see the woman's true heart, if you find that she is not true love, you may wish to leave early.
To sum up, a woman has never given you three things, and most of them are not true love.
Never given you understanding, never given you trust, refused you to have physical contact with her, such a woman, most of them will not develop a relationship with you, men do not know hindsight.
A woman can't give you the basic things, that is, not firm in feelings, don't blindly give.
Leaving the wrong person, you can meet the right person, do yourself well, and true love will meet unexpectedly, and then you will definitely get real happiness.
END
Author: Ye Feifei yff, focus on the field of emotion creation and sharing, with emotions to communicate with you and my heart, but I hope you and I know each other here, like please pay attention to me.