In today's society, there will be many mothers-in-law, who are "two faces", playing a weak role in front of their sons, and very harsh in front of their daughters-in-law. When they have their own sons, they will be very diligent and do not let their daughter-in-law interfere in anything, but they will make their sons feel that their daughter-in-law is bullying her.
But when they face only daughters-in-law, they will reveal their true colors. No matter how hard the daughter-in-law works, they will not go over to take a hand, but always let the daughter-in-law work by herself, not at all like in front of her son.
It is very wrong for these mothers-in-law to do this. You should treat your sons and daughters-in-law equally. You can't scold your daughter-in-law just because she later married into your family. When a daughter-in-law marries into your family, there is one more person to honor you, love you, and take care of you, not to rob your son with you, as you think in your heart.
01.
Green plum bamboo horses, eventually become a family.
Zhao Yi and Gao Minmin have lived together since they were young, and their grandparents, father and mother are also old acquaintances. Zhao Yi and Gao Minmin's grandparents' generation, they said that they wanted to set dolls, but the two families were born boys. They had to give up.
After Zhao Yi and Gao Minmin's parents got married, the old people of the two families said that they would order dolls for their grandchildren. But Gao Minmin's first child was a boy, and a few years after that, Zhao Yi was also born. The two families originally thought that the doll was going to give up on this, but they did not expect that Gao Minmin's mother was pregnant again at this time.
Before Gao Minmin was born, Zhao Yi came to Gao Minmin's house every day to ask when this sister could be born. After Zhao Yi was born, Zhao Yi glued to Gao Minmin every day, and he couldn't drive away.
Therefore, Zhao Yi often fights with Gao Minmin's brother, and Gao Minmin's brother feels that Zhao Yi wants to rob his sister with himself, so every time he sees Zhao Yi, he does not have a good face.
After Gao Minmin grew up, Gao Minmin also became Zhao Yi's heel. No matter what Zhao Yi went to do, she would follow Zhao Yi.
It wasn't until both of them went to high school that Gao Minmin realized that she was in love with Zhao Yi. Zhao Yi also discovered his feelings for Gao Minmin as early as he entered adolescence, and from then on, Zhao Yi was even better for Gao Minmin.
After the end of the college entrance examination, Zhao Yi immediately confessed to Gao Minmin. The two families are also very happy about their feelings, and the two children have officially begun their love journey.
Gao Minmin applied for Zhao Yi's university when he applied for college, and Zhao Yi continued to go to graduate school in order to wait for Gao Minmin. Gao Minmin did not continue his education after college and chose to go out to find a job.
After the two people entered the society, the parents of the two families were also anxious and wanted their children to get married quickly. After all, they are not young now.
At the urging of the two families, Gao Minmin successfully wore her beloved wedding dress and married her beloved boy.
02.
The mother-in-law had two faces, and the daughter-in-law collapsed.
After the two were married, they settled in the city where they were going to college at the time, and lived in a house that the adults of the two families bought for them together before they got married, and wrote the names of the two of them.
In fact, it is not far from home. So the two people will go home every half a month to visit their parents.
After the two people got married for a year, the mother-in-law came to their city for a period of time because of some private matters, and the two people were very happy about the arrival of the mother-in-law, after all, Gao Minmin grew up under the eyes of the mother-in-law, and she was also very fond of the mother-in-law.
But after the mother-in-law came, Gao Minmin realized that the mother-in-law did not like her so much. She also knew that her mother-in-law actually had two faces.
It turned out that the mother-in-law did not like Gao Minmin very much, and she agreed to let the two children get married, also because she could not help the rest of the family, and no one would listen to her opinions.
Therefore, when Gao Minmin and her mother-in-law were alone, the mother-in-law always did not have a good face for Gao Minmin, and she was not at all as friendly as she had treated Gao Minmin before, but Gao Minmin still treated her mother-in-law like before when she was a child, and she also felt that her mother-in-law was in a bad mood during this time, so she was like this.
But when she saw Zhao Yi's mother-in-law's state after she returned home, she knew that she was thinking wrong, and after Zhao Yi returned home, her mother-in-law began to act, afraid that Zhao Yi would not see that Gao Minmin bullied her at home every day.
Zhao Yi also had some opinions about Gao Minmin because of his mother-in-law's attitude. The two men also had several arguments over the incident.
But when her mother-in-law was about to go home, Gao Minmin found out that she was pregnant. Zhao Yi also became very happy because of Gao Minmin's pregnancy, and her mother-in-law also stayed behind. But the mother-in-law's "two faces" did not stop because Gao Minmin was pregnant, but intensified.
Because the high sensitivity and sensitive pregnancy reaction is more serious, she asked the company for leave and stayed at home to rest. But when only Gao Minmin and her mother-in-law were at home, the mother-in-law did not care about Gao Minmin's meals at all, and only did her own amount.
At this time, Gao Minmin could not smell the oil smoke and could not cook. She could only drink water every day. After Zhao Yi returned home, her mother-in-law would make a large table of dishes that Gao Minmin liked to eat to tell Gao Minmin to eat.
Zhao Yi saw that his mother-in-law was so good to Gao Minmin, and Gao Minmin still didn't have a good face for his mother-in-law, and he was also angry and said to Gao Minmin, "My mother is so good to you every day, what else do you want?" ”
03.
The daughter-in-law was angry with her mother-in-law and chose to divorce.
When Gao Minmin heard Zhao Yi say this, she knew that her mother-in-law's acting skills had succeeded again. She said to Zhao Yi, "We grew up together and have been together for so many years, don't you know what kind of person I am?" You are so suspicious of me. ”
Zhao Yi said, "I really doubt it now, do I really know you?" After this quarrel, Gao Minmin made up her mind to expose the true face of her mother-in-law, and she also decided that she would divorce Zhao Yi.
After Zhao Yi went out the next day, she recorded everything she had experienced at home, and when Zhao Yi returned, she released it to Zhao Yi and her mother-in-law on the spot. After the mother-in-law heard this recording, she changed her face on the spot, and Gao Minmin also filed for divorce at this time.
After Zhao Yi pleaded in every way, Gao Minmin did not change his mind and still decided to divorce, and Zhao Yi had to agree.
When Zhao Yi returned home from divorce, her mother-in-law said, "I blame you two for divorcing." ”
But when Zhao Yi saw his mother say this, he immediately replied, "Mom, you don't need to act hard, you have successfully played your son into a bachelor." ”
After saying this, he sent his mother back to the house and told his father what had happened. At the same time, he also went to Gao Minmin's house to tell Gao Minmin's parents the truth of the matter, and expressed his deep apologies.
Although he still wanted to save Gao Minmin at this time, he also knew that Gao Minmin would not return to his side anymore. The two families also broke off contact after this incident.
As a mother-in-law, you should not be so hostile to your daughter-in-law, your daughter-in-law married into your family is one more person to filial piety to you, rather than robbing your son with you. Sooner or later, your son will leave your side, and you should let go early, not firmly put your son in front of you.
You should also understand that after your son marries his daughter-in-law, they are a family, they have formed their common small family, and you should not interfere too much in the life of their small family. You shouldn't have two faces and treat your son and daughter-in-law differently. You know, your daughter-in-law is also treated like a pearl in her own home, and there is no reason why she will be treated so maliciously by you because she married into your family.
As a husband, you shouldn't listen to one-sided words and only see what you want to see, regardless of how your wife and your mother get along when you're not there. Nor should you make one-sided decisions and blindly blame your wife.