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The most important thing between lovers is honesty and trust, if a relationship is full of deception, it is doomed to not go long, but in the same way, if there is a lack of trust between two people, it will also affect the feelings between two people.
To love someone, of course, is to give each other enough security and trust, because feelings are mutual, only by treating each other sincerely, can we make each other feel safe, can we make each other trust.
When two people have a misunderstanding, they must communicate in time, face the problem, and solve the problem, rather than being angry and impulsive to solve the problem, which will only deepen the contradiction between the two people, and even make each other's feelings break.
The following couple, because in the face of misunderstanding, did not communicate in time, the boyfriend had a misunderstanding, almost parted ways.
So what happened between them? Why doesn't a boyfriend trust his girlfriend?
Incident review: A 28-year-old simple girl underwent a marriage examination and found that she was two months pregnant
Xiaoli and her boyfriend Xiao Wu have been in love for a year and are ready to talk about marriage and get married. According to the agreement, the two people went to the hospital together for a premarital examination. It is very important to do a premarital examination, which can check whether both parties have physical diseases, which is conducive to life after marriage.
However, it was such an ordinary premarital examination that made Xiao Wu misunderstand and abandon Xiao Li on the spot. So what did Xiaoli check out that made her boyfriend so angry?
It turned out that the marriage examination report was printed in black and white on the paper, and Xiaoli was already two months pregnant. According to Xiaoli herself, she has not had an intimate relationship with any man, and even fell in love with her boyfriend for a year, and only maintained physical contact such as holding hands and hugging, and did not develop further.
After looking for a re-examination at the hospital, it was found that it was the wrong examination report
Xiaoli expressed her disapproval of this marriage examination, repeatedly went to the hospital to communicate, and explained her situation. After understanding the situation, the hospital suggested that Xiaoli do another examination.
This examination confirmed Xiaoli's statement, so why did the first examination show that Xiaoli was two months pregnant?
After the investigation of the hospital, it turned out that there was a girl with the same name and surname as Xiaoli, who was only one year old, and also came to do the marriage examination, so the doctor took the wrong report, resulting in Xiaoli's marriage examination being misunderstood by her boyfriend.
Xiaoli said that her boyfriend had said that he was with her because of Xiaoli's innocence, and now when he saw such a test result, his boyfriend was of course angry, thinking that Xiaoli was two months pregnant and cheated on him.
The misunderstanding is eliminated, the boyfriend comes back to apologize, and the girl has a gap in her heart
In fact, for the boyfriend, although impulsive, but can also understand, after all, two people have been together for more than a year, have not had an intimate relationship, but suddenly learned that the girlfriend is pregnant for two months, any man is unacceptable, this is the bottom line of men.
After the misunderstanding was eliminated, the boyfriend also took the initiative to apologize to Xiaoli, saying that he was too impulsive and did not trust Xiaoli enough, and promised to believe Xiaoli unconditionally in the future.
The matter seems to have been satisfactorily resolved, but Xiao li's heart is not a taste, feeling that when she faces this kind of problem, her boyfriend did not stand by himself to find the reason, but left her, making her feel that her boyfriend was unreliable.
Netizen views:
Netizens also expressed their opinions on this matter, some supported Xiaoli and advised her to leave her boyfriend, and some said that they could understand her boyfriend's behavior, after all, this is the dignity of a man.
Some netizens think: This man is too modest, encounter such a thing, the first time to definitely go to review ah, said to go or do not believe in the girlfriend.
Some netizens think: boyfriend and Xiaoli have not had an intimate relationship for more than a year, and suddenly found that the marriage test report is two months pregnant, they will think that they are the receiver, who can not be angry?
The occurrence of such a thing is purely coincidental, and the harm to Xiaoli is very large, but the boyfriend's actions can also be understood, after all, the two people have not had an intimate relationship for more than a year together, which shows that the boyfriend also respects Xiaoli.
And when you are about to get married, you find that your girlfriend is two months pregnant, which man can accept it? Surely you think you are a receiver, can you not be angry in your heart?
It's just that the boyfriend's way of handling it is not right, after all, the two people have been together for more than a year, and what is the girlfriend's character is still not understood? When such a thing happens, two people should face it together and seek a solution, rather than turning around and leaving.
I hope that after this incident, the boyfriend can fully believe in Xiaoli, after all, two people live together, there are still many problems to face, and two people need to face it together to solve it.
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