Many college students are engaged in a long "long-distance relationship" model with their love partners. So, are college students willing to accept long-distance relationships?
What do they think is most important between long-distance couples? What should be done after a long-distance couple has a conflict?
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Are long-distance relationships really fruitless?
More than 70% of college students are able to accept long-distance relationships
China Youth Network once conducted a questionnaire survey of 574 college students across the country, and the results showed:
More than 70% of college students are able to accept long-distance relationships;
More than 70% of college students believe that long-distance relationships will fail and break up;
"Lack of communication", "mutual suspicion, lack of trust", "long time without seeing each other, cold feelings" are the main factors in the breakup of long-distance relationships;
More than 60% believe that the most important thing between long-distance couples is "mutual trust and solid feelings";
More than 50% believe that the best way to maintain feelings between long-distance relationships is "video, phone, chat to communicate feelings";
More than 30% believe that long-distance relationships should meet once every month;
More than 70% believe that "long-distance love is the touchstone of love, and love that has experienced the test of long-distance love is the most beautiful";
"Meet and solve", "contact by phone or network" and "gift-giving" have become the solution to the contradictions of long-distance couples.
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According to the survey, 70.38% of the 574 students surveyed were able to accept long-distance relationships. "I am personally able to accept long-distance relationships, and now long-distance relationships are not as convenient as writing letters or taking the train in the past, and direct video chat is very convenient." Chen Minyue, a student at China Agricultural University, said that she is currently experiencing a long-distance relationship, and although she is 3,500 kilometers away from her boyfriend, she can still experience the sweetness of being cherished.
The picture shows the proportion of college students who will accept long-distance relationships
Chen Yiyuan, a student at Xiangtan University, believes that long-distance relationships depend on the degree of liking and understanding of two people, "Two people are really together, no matter how external conditions change, they will not change their feelings." Long-distance relationships can also give the other party room to think, and they will be more mature in the face of feelings. ”
Although most people can accept long-distance relationships, few people are optimistic about the outcome of long-distance relationships. In the survey, 25.09% of college students believe that people in long-distance relationships will successfully and happily live together; 73% of college students think that they are unsuccessful, together for a period of time, struggle and break up; 1.92% think that they will break up soon.
"Long-distance relationships have a lot to consider, and later work, marriage, and parents on both sides, each of which is a big problem." It's okay to be in love, but when it comes to getting married, it's not just a matter of two people. Cheng Shiqi, a student at Qinghai University, said.
Is science lying to me?
"But as long as you have studied electromagnetism, you know that this coulomb interaction between positive and negative charges can be blocked by electric charges, and if you surround these many positive charges and negative charges next to the positive charge, you will not feel its existence." Physics explains long-distance love this way.
"Unreliable is people, never feelings"
Teacher Ai Yuejin of Nankai University once said: "How can distance make love fade, is that love?" ”
According to the survey results, 60.63% of college students believe that the most important thing for long-distance couples is to "trust each other and establish a solid relationship", followed by communication and common pursuit, accounting for 25.96% and 7.84% respectively.
Someone quipped that "nine out of ten long-distance couples broke up" eventually. Regarding the best way to maintain feelings, 51.74% of college students believe that they communicate their feelings through "video, telephone, and chat", and 40.59% choose the way to meet at an appointment. It can be seen that whether it is meeting or chatting, in the process of long-distance love, in-depth understanding and trust are especially important factors.
Xu Xutong, a student at Beijing Jiaotong University, said that due to the development of network technology, online chat has become the most important way to maintain long-distance relationships. Two people can see each other's appearance in video chat, can know what is happening around each other, and "feel as if they are around." ”
The picture shows what college students think
The proportion of the most important factors that bind a relationship between long-distance couples
Although the number of meetings is not much, there are also many advantages of long-distance relationships. According to the survey, 72.3% of college students believe that "long-distance love is the touchstone of love, and the love that has experienced the test of long-distance love is the most beautiful"; followed by "can hone each other's patience and trust", "distance can produce beauty" and "save energy", accounting for 69.51%, 43.55% and 27.35% respectively. It can be seen that in the case of uncommon face-to-face, testing trust is the biggest gain and challenge faced by long-distance couples.
Yu Ziyao of Hebei Agricultural University believes that because the conditions for long-distance lovers are more difficult, it is very courageous for two people who can be willing to face such difficulties and insist on overcoming them. If you persist for a long time, it means that two people have more resilience and willpower, then they will be more cherished when they are finally together.
Netizen comments: Because, surviving a long-distance relationship is a lifetime
The topic caused heated discussion among netizens, netizens said: "There are lovers, even if they are separated by a Pacific Ocean, they can be together"
Many netizens have told their stories, they said: "Because, surviving a long-distance relationship is a lifetime" The screen is full of tears
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So how do you cultivate positive results?
"Long-distance love tricks" are coming
How can I cultivate positive results?
For college students' long-distance relationships, Zhang Dongdong, a teacher at Jiangsu University of Science and Technology, believes that long-distance relationships are not terrible, and what is terrible is that two people cannot see a clear future, and decide to have a long-distance relationship because they trust each other and support each other to do what they like and want to do.
Love is very important, but academic career is also important, let yourself become better and better, to catch up with each other's pace, this is what love should look like.
What long-distance love needs is persistence, is to keep the rhythm of life synchronized, even if the quarrel must insist on chatting, insist on enlightenment, insist on running-in, if you have a common goal, full of confidence in each other, with struggle and imagination, to warm every moment of missing each other.
"Long-distance love" love trick
May every long-distance relationship have a happy ending
May all affection not be betrayed
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