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People's life is not long or short, we will meet all kinds of different people, and when we grow up, we will also meet the person who makes your heart move.
It is often said: "Good love is to turn each other into the best appearance."
I deeply believe that good love is the need for two people to constantly run into personality, lifestyle, so as to find the most comfortable mode of getting along with each other.
If one party is willful and has not paid, such love is difficult to last a long time. So, what is the most comfortable love? It's nothing more than having those two things.
First, we can work together
In addition to poetry and far away, it is more time to be chai rice oil and salt. Two people together, in order to live to work, hard to earn money, in order to make the day better and better.
If one of you doesn't work and doesn't do anything at home all day, your love will disappear in the long run.
I met a colleague who met her wife in college, and the love in college was desirable. I think when the two of them are together, every day is also very sweet.
After graduation, his wife became pregnant and gave birth to a child in her hometown. Since then, the child is almost 8 years old, she has never come out to work again, and she plays cards at home all day.
Once, a few colleagues ate together and heard him complain, "I'm really tired, my wife hasn't worked, my parents are old, and there are four people in the family who need me to raise." I don't dare to get sick, I don't dare to rest, and I don't dare to buy something expensive, because it costs money."
His eyes were red and swollen, and he said as he drank, and the quiet collapse seemed to be talking about him.
I have always believed that in a comfortable love, it is mutual, I understand your hardships, you can understand my difficulties. Under such a life, each other can work hard to run the home, if one party does not work, all day nothing, the other party will always complain, harsh on you is not.
Over time, the feelings of two people will become more and more distant.
I like a passage: "The real meaning of two people together is to work together, to become excellent together, not to ignore, not to be tired of being together every day, but even if they are not together, they will think of you from time to time, they will share their daily life every day, bring occasional small surprises, it is the heart and soul that fit, and make life more meaningful." “
Second, good love is care, it is love.
When we are in love, we will refer to each other's economy, and we always have to turn ourselves into better selves, because we all understand that the world only cares about the results, and only those who love you care about the process and care about whether you are tired or not.
Do you know Luo Yonghao? When he was about to pay off 400 million, he talked about his wife.
"As soon as I smell her body, I feel like I'm inhaling a therapeutic potion." His wife was like a psychological life, and in the darkest and most difficult time of his life, she accompanied him through this long night.
When Hammer Technology was about to collapse, he guaranteed nearly 100 million yuan in order to save the company. On the day of signing, the bank risk control temporarily added conditions and asked his wife to sign the guarantee agreement together.
Luo Yonghao couldn't think about it and called his wife on the spot. His wife didn't say a word and immediately signed it.
This is undoubtedly a huge risk for Luo Sister-in-law, she jokingly said: "These debts, let me cut how many pieces of film, how many scripts to write to earn back." 」
Zhou Guoping once said: "A good marriage is a human world, and a bad marriage is hell." "Indeed, good love is like a good medicine that can heal the wounds on your body.
Teacher Luo is very lucky that in the most difficult time of his life, someone can accompany him to share the storm. In the hardest of times, his wife gave him care. When he paid off all the money he owed by live streaming, he told the world that he was proud to marry such a good daughter-in-law.
Good love, it is just so, people in this life, there will always be a lot of bumps, a person to experience these, is a very lonely and painful helpless process, and someone is willing to walk with you, care for you, love you.
Well, you're really lucky.
So now, when such a person appears in your life, please cherish it.