The old man always said: The dining table sees the character. The way you eat at the table hides the height of the future. Sadly, many young parents are skeptical, always feel that the elderly are a bit alarmist, and even use the excuse of "small children" to completely ignore the way they look when they eat.
Story Case:
Lollipop is a mischievous child, there is not a moment to idle, even eating is worrying. In my mother's words: the stick can't sit still for five minutes, and the meal often jumps up and down, and makes strange noises. Occasionally, when I encounter a meal that I like to eat, I will also take it for myself.
What is surprising is that although the mother does not like the behavior of the stick, but in terms of attitude, she acquiesced to the child's approach. Because in the mother's view, as long as the child can eat seriously, the rest of the things are not important. After all, compared with physical health, everything else is a small thing.
I just want to say: except for the spoiling of parents, no one will like the way they eat like this.
The details of the child's meal reveal his future.
The first: preempting food
Children who eat alone at the dinner table are extremely selfish in their hearts, and even their parents are reluctant to share. This kind of psychology will always grow with the child and become his fatal weakness. In the future, when I have dinner with friends and leaders, it will be difficult to change the habit of eating alone.
The habits carved in the bones are really difficult to correct. Because of selfishness, many opportunities will be lost, and even if the child is excellent, it is difficult to be entrusted with a heavy responsibility.
Second: Indecent action
When eating, talking inappropriately, sneezing, picking your nose... These are indecent gestures that must be seriously stopped. The old ancestor said: Eat without words, sleep without words. It is to tell people: when eating, it is best to keep quiet and try not to affect others.
In particular, the unobstructed words will make people instantly embarrassed, typical of low emotional intelligence performance. At the same time, these indecent manifestations also show that the education of parents needs to be improved, and children have no regularity to speak of.
The third piece: flip it at will
Although the behavior of picking and choosing is slightly stronger than eating alone, it also reflects the selfish psychology of children. Imagine how others can eat when friends and family get together and children stir at random on a dinner plate. Suffice it to say that this is a sign of impoliteness and upbringing.
In the future, if you eat with colleagues and leaders, if you do not consciously flip it at will, it is estimated that it will become the object of everyone's exclusion. Because in the adult world, selfish behavior is most hated.
Young age is never an excuse to condone children, hoping that parents will know themselves. Don't underestimate these tiny details, once you form a habit, it will determine the height of your child's future development. It will even affect their interpersonal relationships, after all, networking is also an important capital.
If they find that their children have these behaviors when eating, parents should be vigilant and "strangle" in the cradle early. The simplest way is to teach parents by word and deed, and use their own behavior to deeply influence children and let them know the right way to eat.
Write at the end: Tell the child that when eating, you must learn to chew carefully and swallow slowly, not only to eat well, but also to absorb more nutrients in food. No matter where you eat, you must develop the habit of respecting others, and put your elders first. Upbringing is reflected in the details.
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