The weather is getting hotter and hotter every day, the New Year is over, many people have entered the tense and orderly work and life, but as the weather warms, people also want to enter the love period, it is estimated that more people who want to fall in love and get married will become more.
Wanting to fall in love and falling in love is actually two things, people who want to fall in love may have been honing their own rank, may first consider making more money, packing themselves more beautifully, making themselves more temperamental, and then through many channels, such as blind dates, such as attending some parties.
Some people say it's easy, some people say it's hard, even harder than ascending to heaven. This thing is like an exam, barely passed the exam students may say, wow this time the question is so simple, even people like me can pass, really God bless ah, then people who have not passed the exam may have also worked hard, but will feel very difficult, and even doubt their own ability.
And love and the exam is still different, the exam paper is certain, and the object of love is not certain, some people through some ways to find their favorite people at once, of course, feel that finding an object is a very easy thing, and some people do not find it for a long time to think that love is a difficult thing.
So there is a question that comes out, the person you like in your head, and let you touch it, you feel very lucky, but is this person suitable for you? Is it suitable for marriage?
When two people are in love, we know that it is good to see each other, but when you ask people who have been married for a long time, they sometimes only talk about each other's shortcomings. For example, husband and wife quarrel, the beginning like to think about the year, think that when I was really blind dog eyes, how to like people like you, I already know that you are such a person, I must close my eyes, do not look at you.
There are many more, when in love, I like to ask you if you love me or not, do you like me? Wait, but such a question is certainly too general, because on the word love, although human beings use all language to describe it, in the end, there is no sentence or even many sentences that can be completely summarized, and it does not have a fixed pattern.
Therefore, affordable people or mature people should pay more attention to some detailed questions, do not underestimate these problems, but these are actually the decisive factors in whether they can be happy after marriage.
First, what things do you appreciate in me, and what things you don't like, as the saying goes, ugly words say ahead, don't just say the good side, people always have something that people don't like, look at these questions and answers, if it is after marriage, in the end can not be accepted.
Second, when there is a difference in family opinion, whether your family chooses the cold war or chooses the outbreak of war, and then how to resolve it, the life of the family is very likely to be reflected on the child, this question can ask your other half in the way of resolving differences and contradictions, because many situations family events are easy to decide, that is, some trivial things are not easy to solve, and it is inevitable to wipe the gun.
Third, whether to have children after marriage, when to plan to have children, like boys or girls, if you have children in the future, then there will definitely be a period of time to be child-centered, ask these questions can see the person's attitude towards children, but also better imagine the life of having children. If you don't plan to want it for the time being, or don't want it, then you should be mentally prepared in advance.
Fourth, how is the family's finances managed, whether to consider both parties to bear debts, or a party to bear more debts, how to save money, how to deal with it, how to consume, although love to talk about money always feels a bit vulgar, but chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea need money, how to deal with financial things, in fact, quite important.
Fifth, to understand whether the other party needs some private space after marriage, in the hot love period, of course, people like to be tired together every day, it seems to be a frying pan, and it is better to add some viscous things, but after marriage, some people may need to leave some private space for themselves because of work reasons, and some people's personality reasons may require the other party to leave some private space for themselves, which also helps to understand each other's work and handling style.
Yes, these questions seem a little embarrassing, but think carefully about whether these questions are important issues, whether marriage is happy will be reflected in these issues, because passion will always fade, chai rice oil and salt will always come, children always have to be watched, mother-in-law always wants, how energy may be used in love.
So what questions do you like to ask each other before you get married? Welcome to discuss!