As a generation after the 8090s, the parents were not literate, and the living conditions at that time were not good, and many parents were forced to make a living, and they could only choose to ignore their children's education problems. Now it is different, the post-80.90 generation is itself an educated parent, and now the economic conditions have become better. Parents want their children to be praised, especially those who like to be told that their children have tutors.
The issue of children's education is an issue that many parents are concerned about now. But many parents often only want to make their children excellent, but forget to teach their children to have tutors. Many children have three common behaviors without tutoring, but these parents do not think so, but others look at it as a joke.
Man is a social animal, we live together in groups, and in this society, the division of labor is naturally different. For work, it is all to serve the society, and there is no distinction between high and low. But in the eyes of children, they will dislike those who do manual labor, such as cleaning in the community or the streets. They will litter in public if others indicate that they have no tutor for their behavior. They'll say, there's a cleaner anyway, and that's what they do.
Respect for the labor of others, which is also a tutor that a child should have. Many parents do not notice that they are usually like this. Littering with garbage, but also pointing fingers at other people's labor, children's these are reproductions. These parents should start with themselves and not litter. Then tell the child, in public, to pay attention to hygiene.
Throwing away the garbage is just convenient for yourself, but it will add a burden to the cleaning staff. Some food is difficult to clean when thrown on the ground, and it is necessary to respect the labor of cleaning aunts, which is also a contribution to maintaining the appearance of the city.
At the Time of the New Year last year, my family went to visit relatives' houses, and generally speaking, according to the normal pressure of the old age, it is to give two hundred. When my father was a relative and a child, he was directly rejected by his relatives and children. The child ran over and looked at the two hundred yuan in his father's hand, and directly came to say: How can it be so little. Then he walked away, and my dad was embarrassed.
But other parents think that the child is very straightforward and smiles. The other parent also explained that their children are still young and should not understand things. This kind of child, my dad said he couldn't like it at all. A child is six or seven years old, and the most basic etiquette is not understood. In the future, the society will definitely suffer losses, but people's parents do not care.
Pressing the old money is originally a new year's blessing, and the child, as the blessed party, should be grateful, express gratitude, and say a few auspicious words. This is also what parents want to educate their children, if the most basic etiquette is not understood, it is difficult for children to survive in society when they grow up.
For table manners, the mainland has always been very particular about it. When it comes to eating, it happens every day. But at home and outside, it can be said that it is completely different. Many small children, the youngest at home, every time there is good food, the family will be the first to clip to him. He felt that everything delicious on the table was his own priority. At home, it is customary to eat alone, and everyone in the family is used to children at home, and may not think so.
If you go to a public place, the child is also like this, where to pick and choose when eating vegetables, completely disregarding the feelings of others. If the emotion comes, it will shout at the dinner table, and the parents can bear it, but in the eyes of others, the child is very uncultured.
Family members should teach their children table manners. If you eat at home, you must let the elders eat first, and when you eat vegetables, you can't pick and choose. In this way, eating in public is very elegant, and people think of it as a tutored child. Eating in public can also reflect the child's tutoring.
Nowadays, many parents do not think much of tutoring. They require children to be good at best and talented. To this end, they may also spend a lot of time and money on cultivating these aspects of the child. Especially in terms of reading, they feel that only when they read well, children can enjoy a better life. Maybe good academic performance is a pass for your child to a prestigious university.
Unfortunately, these parents ignore the most important point of their children, which is to become a tutored child. This kind of tutoring is invisible to the child's help, such as the elders' preference for the child and the heartfelt love for the child. Children can get along better with other people's children, and they can live in society in the future.
Many parents feel that the child is their best, no matter what his character, he can be infinitely inclusive, because he is still a child. It's just that they forget to take care of other people's feelings, and the children are reflected outside without tutoring. Others may not like their children, and may even be a little disgusted, and others may not show it because of politeness, but parents should also pay attention to these aspects.