Tutoring is the background of life.
However, 1-3-year-old children are still too young, language expression ability and comprehension ability are limited, so it is difficult for parents to teach children of this age to understand the rules, but parents should not give up, or maintain enough patience, so as to seize the golden period of children's development, let children better understand the rules, and grow into a person with a tutor.
As a parent, you can start from the following aspects:
1. Parents should demonstrate to their children
Because the child's comprehension ability is limited, so if the parents just say to the child, they may not be able to understand, but if the parent can demonstrate to the child, coupled with vivid language and expressions, when appropriate, you can also add some exaggerated actions, which will be more attractive to the child, but also easier for the child to remember.
For example, when a parent tells a child that "he cannot touch the socket", he can make some serious expressions and behave harshly, which will make the child realize that this thing really cannot be done; on the contrary, if the parent only tells the child "cannot touch the socket" lightly, he may not be able to understand why he cannot touch it, so he cannot abide by this rule.
2. Parents lead by example
Some parents like to preach to their children, but most children cannot listen to boring preaching, coupled with the limited understanding ability of children at this time, so they may not be able to achieve the desired effect.
The correct approach should be that parents lead by example and educate their children with their own actions, which is not only more vivid, but also deepens the child's impression and achieves better results.
For example, if parents ask their children to "not watch TV when eating", they should do it themselves first, rather than watching TV or playing mobile phones while eating, and then educate their children, so that children will naturally not abide by the rules set by their parents.
3. Reward your child at the right time
Children aged 1-3 cannot fully understand all the rules, so they cannot do without the education and guidance of parents, but the correct way of guidance is by no means to punish children, but should be appropriately rewarded to children, so as to achieve the effect of doing more with less.
For example, parents can establish a certain reward system, when the child abides by a certain rule, parents can add a star to the child, accumulating to 10 stars, you can reward the child a little, which will make the child more willing to abide by the rules set by the parents.
On the contrary, if parents always punish their children, it will not only hit the child's self-confidence, but also may trigger the child's rebellious psychology, which may be more unruly.
4. Choose the right time
Parents need to pay attention to not all the time and occasion are suitable for teaching children rules, such as when the child is very hungry, has been very irritable, if the parents still do not care, insist on teaching children rules, it is likely to make the child emotionally out of control, so that do not say that let the child learn the rules, to soothe the child's emotions are a problem.
Therefore, when parents educate their children, they should still pay attention to grasping the appropriate timing, so as not to cause the effect of doubling the results with half the effort.
5. Involve your child in the development of house rules
If all the house rules are formulated by the parents, it may not be possible to make the child completely convinced, and then there may be a situation of poor compliance, so parents may wish to try to involve their children in the formulation of house rules, which may achieve better results.
For example, when the child goes to bed and how long the cartoon is watched can make the child a certain decision, so that the family rules are formulated, the child will be more willing to abide by it.
6. Adjust house rules in a timely manner
The house rules formulated by parents may not be completely correct, so the principle of specific analysis of specific problems should be followed.
If in the process of implementation, problems are found, parents must adjust in time, do not keep wrong, otherwise it may affect the healthy growth of children.
If parents can insist on doing the above points, I believe that they can definitely cultivate a child with tutoring and understanding of family rules.