Due to the decline in fertility rate year by year, the main force for having children is the 90s, this generation pays more attention to children's education than the previous generation, from children's early education to kindergartens to primary schools, every parent strives for excellence.
In the past, everyone liked to use primary school as the starting point for students, and primary school was also the starting point of nine-year compulsory education, and everyone hoped that the starting point would be high. With the progress and development of society, early childhood education is more and more concerned by everyone, in order not to let children lose at the starting line, parents are also doing their best when choosing kindergartens.
Kindergarten also belongs to collective life, there are many children gathered together, naturally there will be some so-called "unspoken rules", then the three types of children in the kindergarten, teachers basically will not like, parents should understand in advance.
Kindergartens also have "unspoken rules", most of the teachers of the 3 types of children do not like, parents should know in advance
Children with slow movements: Parents only need to take care of one child at home, but in the kindergarten, more than a dozen children, only the teacher to take care of, if some children are slow, it will delay the time of other children.
After the kindergarten nap, everyone should get dressed together to go to the toilet, if some students move slowly, the teacher can only wait together, and other students can only wait together, delaying everyone's time.
If it is only once or twice, the teacher will not say anything, but every day everything is slow, the time is long, not only affects one person, but also affects the entire class, which will cause the teacher's disgust.
Children with poor self-care ability: Parents themselves will feel nervous and anxious about sending their children to kindergarten. At the beginning, the child's heart is in a very fresh feeling.
In kindergarten, if you can take good care of yourself, such as eating, drinking, going to the toilet and other basic life skills, you must be very popular in kindergarten.
On the other hand, children with poor self-care ability need the help of the teacher for everything, and once the teacher is not around, the child who cannot handle anything will bring great trouble to the teacher, and the teacher will not like such a child.
Children who like to do it: Some children are pampered at home, have a bad temper, encounter unpleasant things, they will directly lose their temper, and even have the situation of hitting people with their hands.
This kind of trouble-loving child is also not liked by the teacher, and their existence is like a time bomb, which may bring something bad.
If a child is found to be unpopular, what should parents do?
Some parents are very strict in managing their children, not allowing too many things to do, restricting their children's various recreational activities, and worrying about their children's various problems.
Parents do not do this right, children are to discipline, but parents should learn to grasp, in the face of fresh people and things, children as long as they are interested in feeling, parents are more accompanied and guided, let children try new things, give children the opportunity to exercise and learn.
Parents are the protective umbrella of children when they are young, as children grow up, parents can let go appropriately, some parents are too protective of their children, resulting in children losing their nature to love sports.
The kindergarten will arrange outdoor activities for students every day, but some parents tell the teacher alone that they do not let their children participate, afraid of children bumping into each other, and children can only silently watch other children play games and stay alone.
Many times parents do not protect their children too much, after a long time, it will discourage the enthusiasm of children to love learning, and when they grow up, they will not have the initiative to hesitate, it is easy to form a dependent personality, and it is difficult to grow independently
When children go to kindergarten, parents do not know what kind of daily life and social interaction will be carried out? Should parents ask the teacher about the basic situation of their children every day? I believe that parents should be able to do it in moderation, believe that their children have independent abilities, and cultivate their children's independent character, so that they can have a great interest in kindergarten life.
The children in the kindergarten stage are still mainly happy and learn a little knowledge. Prematurely allowing children to bear the pressure of learning will largely cause children to resist the psychology of learning.
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