The average birth rate for twins worldwide is 1:89.
The mother-to-be, pregnant with twins, was a mixture of tension and joy throughout her pregnancy. In addition to being curious about the baby's development, you will also worry about the problem of who is the "boss" of the two babies in advance.
If two babies are of the same gender, it doesn't matter who is the boss. If it is a man and a woman, parents will carefully consider whether it is a "brother-sister combination" or a "brother-sister combination". However, which baby is the boss, the mother may not have the final say.
The mother wants a brother-sister combination, and the doctor says, "You say it doesn't count."
Sugar Mother's classmates gave birth to a baby with a dragon and phoenix fetus, and the two children were often dissatisfied with their identity, many times the parents, why not let them become brothers and sisters. My mother cried and laughed, and helplessly said: "I can't do anything, if I want to blame it, blame the doctor for catching my sister first."
In fact, the classmates also thought about who was the boss at that time, after entering the delivery room, they also specifically stressed to the doctor that if it was a man and a woman, the boy must be born first, and the helpless doctor said that he could not cooperate.
After the classmate said her request, the doctor responded: "You said it doesn't count." The result of the caesarean section did not go as the classmates wished, and the daughter was born only 2 minutes before the son, and became a sister. This incident has made the classmates always grumble, so they also doubled their love for their daughter in life.
In life, everyone generally defaults to the child born first is the eldest. Actually, he doesn't have to be the real boss. The mother said that it does not count, the doctor may not be able to decide, may depend on the "luck" of the baby.
Which of the twins is the "boss"? The results of vaginal and caesarean sections are different
The two babies grew up together in their mother's belly, regardless of size when they were not born, which is the heart of their parents. But after birth, most families will define the identity of their children. But the medical definition of twins who is big and who is small is different from our inherent cognition.
1) The baby who is close to the caesarean section knife is likely to be the boss
When a woman has a twin by section, the doctor should try to ensure that both babies are removed within 15 minutes.
Time is pressing, the doctor's energy also needs to be highly concentrated, they will not go to see which is the male treasure, which is the female treasure, nor do they have time to compare the size, generally will first hold out the baby closest to the knife edge. The first to be carried out is the eldest, and the second to be carried out.
Only in this way can the baby who is blocked inside be born more smoothly. If according to the mother's words, let the doctor take the male treasure out first, once the time is delayed, it is very dangerous for the two babies and the mother. Therefore, not only did the mother say that it did not count, but the doctor could not deliberately choose which baby to hold first.
2) The baby born after the birth time is actually the boss
From the perspective of the law of life selection, the eldest of the twins is dominant. During pregnancy, the real old man occupies a better position in the womb, closer to the top of the uterus, and squeezes the second man closer to the mother's uterine opening.
However, in the case of normal delivery, babies near the uterine opening are often born first, and the eldest who lives in a "good position" is born later, resulting in a major change in the identity of the two babies after birth.
Therefore, it is often seen that the eldest of the twins is younger than the second, and it is because of this phenomenon. Therefore, which of the twins is the boss also depends on their luck.
Being the boss is not necessarily lucky, and often shoulders a lifetime of responsibility
A voice sister (brother), a lifetime sister (brother). In fact, for children, being an older brother and sister may not mean that they are lucky. They are only a few minutes away from the birth time of the so-called younger siblings, but they may have to shoulder the responsibility of being older brothers and sisters for a lifetime.
If parents are properly educated and treat both children very fairly, then both the eldest and the second will feel very happy.
I am afraid that some parents, when educating their children, have always let the eldest let the second eldest. My brother and sister have been wronged since I was a child, and where is the luck, he would rather be the second oldest.
The feelings of twins are more intimate than between the two children. And because the birth time of the two children is not much different, whether it is a brother or sister, it is the definition given to them by the outside world, and the child only passively accepts this identity. If parents treat each other differently, it will affect the feelings between children.
Therefore, for the baby, the real "luck" has nothing to do with the birth order, if the following conditions can be met, it is really "good luck".
The luck of the twin mother and baby comes from the following things
In the past, being pregnant with twins was a dangerous thing. Because there is no advanced method of obstetric examination, and there is no caesarean section, the twins can be born smoothly, which is a great luck for the family, so everyone does not care who will be the boss.
Even now, when the production conditions have become better, the word "safety" should be the thing we should be most concerned about, and the real good luck must be supported by the following conditions.
Pregnant twins require more on-time obstetric check-ups: pregnant women who are pregnant with a single child have about 10 check-ups throughout their pregnancy. Obstetric check-ups for pregnant twins are more frequent at this time and are generally given birth early.
In order to ensure that the two babies are developing normally and the pregnant woman is not in danger, it is necessary to check on time and choose the appropriate mode of delivery. The baby is born smoothly, and the safe delivery of the mother is the more important thing. As for who is the eldest and who is the second eldest, it can also be re-decided after the baby is born.
Don't let your child's life be trapped by "salutation": having a pair of twin babies is the dream of many families, and children should also experience happiness when they can grow up with someone so close.
No matter how the parents finally decide, the older brothers and sisters, the younger brothers and sisters, are only the children's names for each other, and parents cannot let the children be trapped in this title. The eldest is also worthy of being pampered and protected, and the second eldest can also be mature and stable.
Candy Mother's Heart:
Being pregnant with twins is naturally lucky, but don't risk it, take medicine or get injections. It is the healthier twins who conceive naturally.
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