Men are born hunters
To make a long story short, men are born hunters, for the primitive impulse, to capture women as prey, short-term pleasure = childbearing, men have always been unable to understand this complex mathematical formula, long-term in ignorance, and women naturally understand, this is the man matured too late, as far as family responsibility is concerned, some men have not figured it out for a lifetime.
Men mature late
The news said that the number of girls in the college student group has now surpassed that of boys, is it that men are not smart enough? No; why are boys generally sensible late? Knowing that when you study well, you have been diverted from the middle school entrance examination, or the college entrance examination has ended; why are strong boys generally not learning well? Why are boys who study well generally not strong?
Men's nature is not suitable for learning, so men who learn well generally lack male temperament, men's nature is to explore, is to learn in exploration, sit at the desk quietly write and paint, is the continuation of ancient women weaving and weaving, is the ancient women picking, handling the alienation of prey, contemporary education is really more suitable for women.
Men love to explore and mature in exploration
A woman's interest in home far exceeds that of the prey running outside, a man's interest in prey far exceeds that of his family, and a man's claim to raise a family is so tired that he actually enjoys it.
Why are the major industry and academia achievers almost all men? For example, the Nobel Prize, which is in line with our analysis above, men like to explore, and learn in exploration, at this time men's growth is amazing, comparable to bamboo shoots.
Your husband has a good character, and your feelings are also very good, but why do you always do things that hurt you? Don't look at his thirty, forty or even fifty years old, the understanding of the family to the marriage to the lover, in the final analysis, is still immature, mature too late.
As the saying goes, without suffering, people can never grow up, men explore the world through work and life, if they want men to truly understand the meaning of family, understand the importance of marriage, understand the preciousness of lovers, they must experience at least two major disasters.
Men have to go through two disasters after their situation has improved
Poor, self-made can not be regarded as a disaster, such a man's career is developed, there is a high probability that he will abandon his original match, I am talking about two disasters after the man's situation improves. Like the frequent mortgage supply cuts since last year, there are data that there were 1.6 million cases of house cuts and auctions in the country last year, if the house is auctioned in a miserable situation, the wife can still support the man's comeback without abandoning, I think, men will have a new understanding of their wives! For most men, this blow is enough to dispel the intention of abandoning the original partner and marrying a new wife, and it is still possible to live a peaceful and stable life, but if you want men to be loyal mentally and physically, it will take a big disaster.
This kind of disaster can be a disease, an accident, another collapse of a career, or another fall of life situation...
Can I direct a catastrophe?
Some of the original friends may say, since this is the case, can I direct such a disaster? Let men have a good long memory, I do not approve of friends doing this, IMHO, with the strength of your original friends, the director of this big turning level of "disaster", will only be self-defeating.
Life is not easy, the level of disaster, we don't want to direct, however, occasionally the director of the sketch level of fright is no problem, the big lesson two is enough, but the small lesson accumulation into a multi-quantitative change caused by qualitative change, can also play a very good effect, a needle and a needle, can also be pierced strong man kneeling for forgiveness.