Text: Xi Xihuan
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It seems that in the eyes of many people, marriage is no longer immutable, and if two people are really not suitable, then divorce is no longer impossible.
Even many people will remarry quickly after divorce, and in the eyes of an ex-wife or ex-husband, if you are happy after remarrying, it has become a kind of proof that you have a good life after leaving the wrong person.
However, not every marriage ends with a better next marriage, because neither a man nor a woman will be happy even if they learn to cherish and manage it.
What is the most important factor in marriage, no one can give an accurate and unique answer, because everyone pursues different things in marriage, and naturally wants different things.
Especially for women, marriage sometimes even means a second rebirth, if you marry the right person, then every day is Valentine's Day, because every day will be cared for by the lover, and naturally enjoy happiness and sweetness.
But if you marry the wrong person, not only will you have a lot of wind and rain for the rest of your life, but you will also let yourself continue to stumble in this wrong marriage, wasting time and energy.
Zhang Ting has not stopped since she got married, at least in the eyes of her husband Wang Haiyi. Thinking that when the two people were first together, Wang Haiyi felt that Zhang Ting was the wife of his dreams, gentle and considerate, her voice was soft and weak, and it was easy to have no opinion when encountering things, which greatly satisfied his heroic feelings.
When the two people talked about marriage, Zhang Ting made Wang Haiyi hesitate, and she knew that Wang Haiyi's family conditions were not very good, but she asked for a dowry of 300,000 yuan, and she also wanted to buy the house with her name in full, otherwise she would not get married.
Wang Haiyi's parents advised their son to consider carefully, after all, he was not married, and the days after marriage could be imagined, but Wang Haiyi finally did not want to give up this relationship easily, after all, it was the girl he had loved for several years.
After the two people discussed, Zhang Ting lowered the dowry to 200,000 yuan, and also agreed not to add her name to the real estate deed for the time being, but to give her a car, Wang Haiyi agreed, of course, these requirements met Zhang Ting and emptied all his parents' savings.
After the two people got married, Wang Haiyi knew that Zhang Ting liked to travel, so he would take time to take her out to play twice a year, but Zhang Ting was more and more dissatisfied, saying that her girlfriends were traveling abroad, and only she was in China every time.
Although Wang Haiyi's work is not a high salary, it is stable, coupled with the abundant welfare at the end of the year, which can also be regarded as drought and flood protection.
But Zhang Ting is not satisfied, she always complains that Wang Haiyi does not earn much, saying that her girlfriend's husband earns an annual salary, and the monthly dividend is on top of Wang Haiyi's monthly salary.
After listening to such words more, Wang Haiyi felt more and more uncomfortable in his heart, he was not good enough, but what about Zhang Ting? Since getting married, she no longer works, every day I sleep until noon to get up, the meal is also prepared by the mother-in-law for her to eat, usually not shopping or looking for girlfriends to play mahjong, the pressure of life is all pressed on Wang Haiyi's body.
Finally, once, at a party between Zhang Ting and her friends, she laughed at Wang Haiyi in front of everyone that he was not only not handsome, but also so short, and a friend gave Wang Haiyi a nickname, and in an instant Wang Haiyi changed his face, but Zhang Ting not only did not defend him, but laughed with him.
When he returned home that night, Wang Haiyi proposed a divorce, and in the face of Wang Haiyi's request, Zhang Ting was dumbfounded, and then became angry and said to him: "Just like you, you make less money and are not handsome, if I don't marry you, can someone look up to you!" I am so young, it is easy to find after divorce, but you, really divorced and want to remarry is difficult. ”
The two people went through the divorce procedures the next day, Wang Haiyi was heartbroken, unwilling to touch his feelings again, a mind poured on the work, but also developed his own side business.
Just when he was discouraged, a very special woman appeared in his life force, she especially understood Wang Haiyi, in the face of his bitterness, she also understood, just like this, the woman slowly entered Wang Haiyi's heart.
Most importantly, with the encouragement of women, Wang Haiyi resigned and went to the sea to start a business, and soon made achievements. When he earned the first pot of gold, Wang Haiyi proposed marriage to the woman, and his parents were also very satisfied with the daughter-in-law, and the two people lived happily after marriage.
In the blink of an eye, a year has passed since Wang Haiyi and Zhang Ting divorced, once in the mall, Zhang Ting saw Wang Haiyi holding a woman very close, between words and deeds is gentle and considerate, that is what she once got, but she did not cherish.
Zhang Ting was indignant in her heart, and went forward to try to satirize Wang Haiyi for a few words, but after learning about his recent situation, Zhang Ting was completely stupid, and it turned out that she had given up such an excellent man.
Originally thought that it was not difficult to marry a rich man again with her own posture after divorce, I did not expect that it has always been the object of play, although there are men who are interested in her, but they are just playing, and none of them are serious about her.
In this way, high is not low, she herself is not willing to go out to work, and now her life is very embarrassing.
The contrast between Wang Haiyi and Zhang Ting after the divorce can't help but make people sigh, when they first entered the marriage, Wang Haiyi, like many people, only wanted to harvest a stable love and marriage, but Zhang Ting's lack of cherishing, the vanity of the comparison eventually led to the breakdown of this marriage.
The most difficult thing for husband and wife to live is to understand each other, because two people come from different original families, have different education, have different family backgrounds, and develop different personalities, and are naturally prone to differences and contradictions when facing problems.
But no matter what kind of difficulties there are, as long as the husband and wife work together and work hard in the same direction, will they still worry about the future life?
If you have an external heart, always complain about your partner, but never start from examining yourself, then you can only push the other party farther and farther, because if people's hearts are hurt and become cold, it is difficult to cover the heat.
There was once a saying that is very popular, marriage is not easy, and it is good and cherished, two people from the beginning of marriage to the beginning of the white head with the old age, in fact, it is not easy, which requires the efforts of two people to operate, but also need to understand and tolerate each other.
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