In the face of great pressure, in the face of the incomprehension of others, the inner emotions exploded in an instant. No matter how much life is like this, it will not stand the test of time. Why do you casually use your life as a chip against parents and teachers? Life is the source of everything, and the value of life in people's hearts is far beyond everything.
We can often see some teenagers who are overbearing or emotionally out of control, facing the pressure of parents, teachers, or unsatisfactory encounters in life, and will always use some extreme methods to show resentment and dissatisfaction in their hearts. In the eyes of ordinary people, such behavior is actually undesirable, and many people for the fear of life, will not make such an extreme behavior, then in the process of adolescent growth, what is the reason for this phenomenon to occur frequently?
First of all, in the process of adolescents growing up, the influence of family environmental factors and parental education is also continuously transmitted to children. Children's values and outlook on life have formed a development model with parents as "examples" in the subtle process. The words and deeds of parents and family members and friends have a very significant impact on children's behavior and outlook on life. We often say the same thing as good people and good people. In the process of children's growth, parents are the best teachers, from the attitude of talking and doing things and the way and method of treating others are growing up in continuous progress and learning, so family education can often be judged from children's behavior.
In the process of children's growth, if parents indulge in the mistakes made by their children and ignore them, then the child's behavior will be slowly amplified, and even have a far-reaching impact. In dealing with things or treating others, it is also slowly accumulated from the words and deeds of parents.
Secondly, in the process of growing up, adolescents should accompany teachers and classmates the most, so this has played a very critical role in the growth of children. Since starting school, children have always spent more time in school than with their parents every day, so the teacher's earnest teaching has a huge impact on the construction of children's behavior and psychology, outlook on life, and values.
Many people say that the teacher is the child's second parent, this sentence is actually very reasonable, in addition to the parents can teach the child, tirelessly adhere to, for the child from the psychology and learning and the understanding of the value of life education, the teacher's painstaking efforts, but also the child's growth process to get the greatest wealth.
Third, the most fundamental factor affecting the growth of children is that in the process of children's learning in school, the task of this education is completely handed over to the teacher, and the parents are left to ignore. This is precisely what leads to the problems in the growth process of children, psychological health, and even problems are not few.
We often say that the growth process of adolescents is inseparable from the support and companionship of parents, since most of the time is in school with classmates to grow together, then the companionship and education of parents. Doesn't it work? In fact, teachers have to take care of so many students in school, and their energy and time are unable to do it, so it is inevitable that they will not be able to "take care". At this time, if there are parents on the side to troubleshoot or method guidance, then the child's growth will not miss the problem, the best time to solve the difficulties, and will not make great changes in the child's psychology.
Many parents will attribute the problems of their children's growth process to the bias of the teacher, or their busy work. In fact, the crux of the problem is mainly the lack of care and attention to the child, the child has a problem, he may not be able to communicate with the parents and teachers in time, that as a parent careful observation and timely communication, you can avoid the occurrence of such problems. Children really establish a correct outlook on life and values, in fact, after the occurrence of problems, so when things happen, parents' attitudes and handling methods of children to things can really help children grow.
In short, most of the growth of adolescents is spent in the company of teachers and classmates, but the education and attention of parents are indispensable. In this process, only by cooperating with each other can children achieve a healthy or even excellent level in psychological growth, and will not let children have psychological deformities or pathological development of outlook on life and values.
If parents can pay more attention to their children in a timely manner, then help children establish an attitude toward problems and others in the process of growing up and give more support. I believe that the child's growth will be healthier, the heart will be stronger, and its outlook on life and values will also develop in the right direction.