Men carrying you to "raise fish" will leave traces in the circle of friends, which cannot be hidden

Zhuang Di Xiaomeng / Seeing the essence through the story

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There is a plot in the TV series "Little Lover" in which the female number two is planning to marry her beloved boyfriend, but is told by a mysterious woman that her boyfriend is a scumbag.

After a detailed investigation, it was discovered that her boyfriend had several girlfriends at the same time, and she was just one of them.

In order to get revenge on the scumbag, they joined forces to stage a play at the wedding.

Although the scumbag was punished, she was also very seriously hurt because of it.

The most intolerable thing for women is that their own men are out there raising fish.

The fish farming here is not really fish farming, but it means that he secretly works as a sea king outside, hanging several girls at the same time.

Such men have one thing in common: they are very good at hiding themselves and will package themselves as single.

If his technique is pure, perhaps you will be kept in the dark forever.

Therefore, for a girl, the "slag recognition" skill is particularly necessary.

The ancients often said that there is no impermeable wall under the sky, as long as you do something wrong, you will definitely leave a handle.

If your other half raises fish behind your back, he will also leave some traces, as long as you are good at observation, and this trace is usually left in the circle of friends.

01

It was public with you, but the dynamics were visible for three days

People who can be seen for three days in the circle of friends usually have the same psychology, that is, they don't want others to know too much about their lives.

So they hide their past, and the new acquaintances know nothing about them.

He can wrap up a whole new image that can't be discovered by people who don't follow him for a long time.

And this kind of packaging can also be used for feelings.

He once made your presence public in the circle of friends, and you are happy because it is a symbol of recognition of your status.

But his circle of friends is always visible for three days, although it has been public, but it is only a brief display.

He doesn't keep posting about you, or he rarely posts about you, but as long as he's ever posted, he can shut your mouth.

At this time, you should be careful, but this alone can not be in a hurry to make a conclusion about him, you have to continue to look at the following characteristics.

02

Dynamic such as single, and often show "quality life"

I don't know if you have ever encountered such a thing, there is a kind of man who is not single, but his circle of friends is like a single.

Whether it is dynamic or background pictures, there is no trace of his girlfriend, not only that, he often posts some special quality things in the circle of friends.

Like cars, like luxury goods, like photos of travel.

At some point he might also send out some handmade delicacies.

Of course, even if he's eating with you or traveling with you, you'll never be in his dynamics.

The probability of this man raising fish behind his back can reach 40%, and everything he does is fishing.

A man who packages himself so highly and also hides the fact that he is not single shows that he has ulterior motives.

03

The circle of friends background image is used to show the figure

The background picture of the circle of friends is also very illustrative.

Some people will put a picture of their favorite in the background image, some people will put their family members on it, and some people will put their favorite people on it.

In short, what they put on it is usually what they care about the most.

A man with a girlfriend does not put the girlfriend's photo into the background picture, but shows his body and appearance on it.

This shows that he is showing it to others.

As we all know, men don't like to look at men's bodies too much, but women do.

His WeChat background picture is not for men to see, but specifically for women.

All he did was just fishing, and he wanted the girls in WeChat to pay more attention to him and even have a good feeling for him.

04

Frequently send sentimental copywriting

He obviously has a girlfriend, and his life is very peaceful, not to say that he is rich and wealthy, but he can also be regarded as smooth sailing, but he is still sentimental, and this sentimentality is not manifested in life, but in the circle of friends.

He often sends some lonely copywriting, eager to be understood, eager to be loved.

You think he's inexplicable, sick and moaning, but there's a reason for it all.

A man who has such a move is actually abnormal, he is not sent to you to see, but to others to see.

All loneliness is just a plea for comfort, and of course he is not asking for your comfort.

There may be a few so-called confidants in his list of friends, who often discuss the philosophy of life together and strive to resonate with the soul.

His sentimentality was shown for those people.

A man with one of the above characteristics may not be able to conclude that he is raising fish outside, but if he accounts for three of the 4 characteristics, then the probability of raising fish can be as high as 90%.

Write at the end:

I don't know when it began, the young people's concept of marriage and love has undergone earth-shaking changes, the former affection has become the current licking dog, and the once disgraceful flower heart has become a fashion.

This is not an epidemic, but a pathology, a pathology that needs to be corrected in time.

People live in this world, money status is not the most important, the most important thing is feelings, a person can only be considered worthless if he has received true love.

Maybe he wasn't rich, maybe his life wasn't going well, but having a man who didn't give up proved that he was more successful than most people.

Everything in the world has a cycle of cause and effect, and so are feelings.

You treat feelings as a game, and one day you will become someone else's game.

But if you take your feelings seriously and face everything with a persistent attitude, even if you have encountered some ups and downs, you will win the ultimate warmth.