I am not an only child, and I have many friends around me who are the same as me, and people like us who have brothers and sisters since childhood are very envious of the children in the one-child family when they are young.
The childhood of an only child can enjoy the love of his father, mother, and all his family, and has richer material conditions than that of a multi-child family, and the child's childhood is happier.
Most only children envy us for having siblings
He was afraid that there would be a competitor to divide up the family's care.
Only children are good, or two-child, three-child families are better, when the two-child policy, three-child policy has been released, this has become a matter that many parents are hesitating, it is easy to have a child, but it is not easy to raise a child, we still have to consider carefully.
The family does not have a second child, and the first half of the child's life is a completely different life
Xiao Xiao has an older brother, who has a family and has a cute child. She also graduated from college this year, has a boyfriend, and plans to get married.
Xiao Xiao's parents are both state civil servants, and the family's economic conditions are still good, but she feels that her parents do not love her very much, and she is often much worse than her uncle's sister.
There was only one girl in the uncle's house
She is an only child.
The uncle's daughter is still in college, and plans to stay there to work after graduating from college, and according to her parents, the uncle's family is already planning to buy a house in the city where she went to college, because the parents always have to accompany their daughter.
Look at yourself, the boyfriend also has, the job is stable, it is almost a marriage room, although the in-laws have a part of the down payment, the two young people still carry a full body of loans.
When my parents first bought a house for their brother to get married, they had no news here
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From a young age, Xiao Xiao was very envious of herself as a cousin of an only child
She eats, uses, and wears, all of which are better than her own. What do you have? There was only one older brother, like a mountain pressed on his head, with excellent academic performance, and his parents often used him to educate himself. Now that she is older, my cousin is still much better than herself.
The only child will indeed have many advantages in childhood, do not worry that parents will have a preference for sons over daughters, and the family's economic burden is relatively small, and the child's material life will be relatively rich. Because there are fewer children, parents will raise their children more delicately.
How beautiful is the life of an only child in the first half of life, and how sad it will be in the second half of life after 30 years or 40 years
These two cousins, the sister of the only child, when their parents are old after 30 years, all the financial pressure of support and the problem of sickness care have to be carried by herself. Moreover, if there is any problem with your life and career, also
There is no reliable helper
As a cousin with an older brother, it is different, she has an older brother, at least the various burdens will be reduced by half.
Now that the two-child policy is open, as the post-90s who have grown up, many are parents who are only children, and their enthusiasm for having a second child is higher than that of others. Probably because they have felt the pressure of middle age, parents getting old, and children young.
Children of one-child and two-child families, after 30 years, will have these differences in life, and see if you think the same way.
First, the only child must work harder to earn money.
The economic conditions for only children will be better, many people think so. But what we see is a period of time when they were young, waiting until the only child became an adult.
They are less afraid to lose their jobs and need to work harder to make money
Because he alone is the breadwinner of the whole family.
Second, the only child lacks the help of brotherhood.
In an adult world, the help of a few good friends is indispensable, because you always have difficulties. What a good friend, if the maintenance is not good, there will also be a friendship crisis.
However, brothers and sisters are different, they are blood relatives, even if something happens, it will be easier to remember each other, easy to reconcile as ever.
Third, the life of an only child loses more freedom.
Parents are not far away, for only children is really like this,
When you are an adult, your parents are more restrictive of you
If you plan to find a job farther away or marry a farther in-law, your parents will be very opposed. Our parents are more dependent on their children, and children will lose a lot of freedom.
Fourth, the only child is most afraid of the illness of his parents.
The illness of a parent is something that every child is unwilling to face, and this is especially true for only children. When the parents are sick, they need us to take care of them, they also need us to pay for treatment, they can't make money by giving up their jobs, and they can't take good care of their parents when they make money from work, which is also a very difficult choice.
Parents of the second child, we are first bitter and then sweet, after surviving the children's childhood, there will be a beautiful old age.