Having only one child, is it a sin or a blessing for the parents to be old? The people who came over had something to say.
Q: What do you all think?
Netizen one: A child is indeed lonely, although it is accompanied by parents and grandparents, the child is a child after all, and playing with adults is not as good as playing with peers, which is quite different. There is also the only child, when the parents are old and sick, that is, the parents are very rich, there is no financial pressure, but the pressure to accompany is also too big, because there is a child who turns around, no one helps, even the person who discusses it, our parents have five children, when my father was hospitalized, several of us were busy with their hands and feet, two months later my father and his old man left, we all shed a layer of skin, physically and mentally exhausted.
Netizen two: In fact, children are not good for their parents at all, as the saying goes, how old mothers are bitter! But I still insisted on having a second child, because I thought that one day as parents we would leave him and them, and then my children would be very lonely if they had a brother or sister, they would have something to rely on!
Netizen three: No matter one or two, family education from an early age is very important, in the atmosphere of love, family unity and friendship, as they grow older, they will help each other, otherwise a cold and selfish person will eventually form a vendetta. I have an older brother who I feel very happy and have something to discuss and help, and my parents also think that they are very happy to give birth to me. The husband is the only mother-in-law who is not in good health and no one shares it, and the indescribable pain of a hospitalization is indescribable.
Netizen four: only child is good or bad is really not necessarily, depends on the conditions, but also have to have an only child to be safe and sound all their lives, my mother-in-law's milk is a son, married my father-in-law died early, she always let me have two, said an unreliable, of course, not all one-child families will become the only one-child old man, just say part, because you don't know the accident and tomorrow which comes first, so it doesn't matter whether a child or two children look at their own situation and preferences!
Netizen five: My family does not have a second child, but there is a seven-year-old sister-in-law, if you live together, it is equivalent to my mother-in-law gave birth to a child, during the month my mother-in-law has no time to take care of us, so out of the confinement we moved back to my mother's house to live, a person from pregnancy to now bring the child to ten months, my child is really a simple person to bring, the most is only when eating when the family helps to hug it, so it is really tired, but on this one heart liver baby, it is also very happy, but if there is a second such happiness, I'm probably going to crash.
Netizen Six: I myself am an only child, and then I also choose to have only one. The economic basis is to follow the roots, people live not only to survive, of course, you also want to live a good life. Most people should look in the mirror and ask themselves if I'm doing well? This is not only a responsibility to oneself, but also to the unborn.
Netizen seven: A child is a little lonely, I have a son, also 15 years old, hours in the community and other children play around, tired back to their respective homes. Now that he is older, he wants to find a kiss to play, but the sister-in-law does not like him to go to his brother to play, so the child's father said to have another sister. Don't dare to give birth, the big one is more than ten years old, regenerating a generation gap will come out, the big one is too big, the small one is too small. alas! A little easier, at least don't have to go to work until you are old!
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