In the process of growing up, when the child grows up, he is curious about the world, many young children will have great curiosity about the body of their peers, they may look at each other in front of adults or behind the back of adults, touch each other's sexual organs.
We are constantly thinking about how to better protect children in many things, but we avoid mentioning sexual protection, which undoubtedly gives those pedophiles who are eyeing the tiger an opportunity. They will take advantage of their children's ignorance of sex and use various means to achieve their own ends.
With the frequent exposure of sexual assault incidents, more and more parents realize the importance of sexual enlightenment for their children, some parents want to tell their children to be afraid of crossing the line, do not tell their children but worry about their safety, in fact, when we can't say it, we may wish to try these methods:
1. Role awareness
Children have gender awareness from the age of 3, at this time parents can use the form of picture books to generously tell children the difference between boys and girls and other aspects of knowledge.
2. Before the baby is 6 years old, please be sure to carry out sex education for the child. Let them know the private parts of their own body, increase their vigilance against private parts, and understand the boundaries of others touching them.
3. What if the baby likes to touch his "private parts"? Parents must not shout loudly, even scolding, do not stop the baby, can quietly divert the child's attention, at this time the baby's exploration of private parts, just like the exploration of their own hair, fingers, navel eyes, ears as usual.
4. Positive answers
If the child takes the initiative to talk about the topic of "sex", do not avoid the child's questions, ask what to answer, parents can take the opportunity to popularize the child's sexual science in the process of communication, to meet the child's curiosity, if the parents avoid answering, the child may be through other uncontrollable ways to satisfy curiosity.
5. Discuss a "list of intimate people" with your baby, let him be vigilant, and do not let people outside the list have opportunities.
6. Live-action drills
For example, rubbing the child's small hands, tightly wrapping around the child's shoulders, pinching, rubbing, touching the little ass, etc., so that the child obviously feels unnatural and uncomfortable. Tell the child that when he (she) has this feeling, it means that the adult is unfriendly, you have to refuse, to say "no", if the adult does not stop to cry, make trouble, run, no matter what happens, you must tell your parents
7. Tell the baby that mom and dad are the people who love you the most in the world, if adults need help, they will choose to find adults, rather than looking for a small child to help, if they encounter harm, be sure to tell their parents and the most trusted people, do not keep secrets for bad people.