800,000 which... Give it out and you can't get it back! Aunt Zhang lay on the bed with tears in her eyes and regretted not being at the beginning: "800,000! I gave it all at once! Now I don't have any money to hire a nurse myself, who knows to find him

800,000 which... Give it out and you can't get it back!

Aunt Zhang lay on the bed with tears in her eyes and repented of not being the first:

"800,000! I gave it all at once! Now I don't have any money to hire a nurse myself, so how do you know that it is so difficult to find them for a penny? In Aunt Zhang's mouth, they refer to sons and daughters-in-law.

Aunt Zhang's wife died of illness the year before, and before she died, she told her not to be wronged by herself, she should eat and drink, especially the family's savings should be held by herself, first use it for herself, anyway, it is not used up and finally left to her son, and it is not a subservient to him.

Aunt Zhang has only one child, and she lives in the same neighborhood as Aunt Zhang, which is the distance of a bowl of soup that many people appreciate. When Uncle Zhang was there, the old two went to the small two's house every day, helped cook and washed with the children, the small two came back from work to eat ready-made, everything was done by the old, the living expenses milk powder money, the kindergarten fees were contracted by the old two, the son and daughter-in-law almost did not have to pay any money, so everyone was at peace.

Uncle Zhang's monthly pension was five or six thousand when he was alive, plus more than three thousand of Aunt Zhang's, it was enough to subsidize his son's family, and now there was only a pension from Aunt Zhang, and it was overstretched to use, sometimes buying vegetables Zhang Aunt had a bit of buckle rope, the quality of natural meals was not as good as before, the daughter-in-law's face was not very good-looking, Aunt Zhang was not good to open her mouth to her son, there were words of suffering!

Unexpectedly, she did not look for her son, the son came to her, the son said: Old lady, you are not in good health, you will not do our family's affairs in the future, you want to eat what you want to do, wait for us to do it for you after work.

Aunt Zhang also thought that her son was considerate of herself, but she knew that her son said the second half of the words, which made her heart cold to the bottom! The son said that he planned to invite his father-in-law and mother-in-law to replace Aunt Zhang, but the room was small and could not be opened, and he was ready to change to a larger one, the difference was 800,000, and he wanted Aunt Zhang to support it, to see the old woman hesitate, and the son made up the knife and said 'borrow it'.

Aunt Zhang said 'fart', what is the difference between you and borrowing? The old woman is almost 70, can you wait until the day you pay back the money to say two things, remembering his wife's dying instructions, Aunt Zhang refused her son.

The next day the son came again, smiling and giving an ultimatum:

1, the change of the house has paid a deposit, in the community.

2, the son has the right to inherit, the father left the money is entitled to half of it!

My son said, my father at least left more than 1 million, I want 800,000 is not much. Besides, in the future, your pension must not rely on us?

Aunt Zhang knows that the son of "wife management" is actually the spokesperson of the daughter-in-law, look at the posture, do not give money may have to go to court, no way, spend money to buy peace, Aunt Zhang finally compromised, took out all the savings of 800,000!

Later, Aunt Zhang fell, fractured, lived in the hospital for more than half a month, originally expected her son to come to the hospital to accompany her, but the son said that he could only take a few days off, more units did not approve, no way, Aunt Zhang had to pay for the nurse, plus the medical insurance reimbursement of some of the costs are not included, must be self-funded, several items together, the money in Aunt Zhang's hands is almost spent.

Now discharged from the hospital, but life can only barely take care of themselves, cooking and buying vegetables and not to mention, even if you have to rely on people to go to the toilet, the nurse in the hospital is good, Aunt Zhang wanted to take her home, but the salary of the nanny is higher than that of the hospital nurse, and she has to eat and wrap up, Aunt Zhang calculated that she could not get this money, and asked her son what to do?

The son felt that there was no need to ask a nurse: "We are so close, can't we just bring you food every day?" ”

In the eyes of the son, the biggest problem that the mother has to solve is eating; in the eyes of the mother, her biggest problem is nursing, the two are not on the same channel, how can not talk together.

Aunt Zhang only understood her wife's hard heart until this time, but it was too late! It is easy to help people open their mouths, but it is difficult to ask people to open their mouths, so what about kissing their sons? That 800,000 is definitely not going to go back! What about her except to lie in bed and sigh a little?

Aunt Zhang's story tells us:

The elderly must have a nest (house)

Must have a little self-defense money (deposit)

Some people say that it is selfish to do this only for oneself and not for the children! But

If you don't do it for yourself, who will take care of you?

Lying unattended, generous to whom?

People say, is this correct?