At 11 o'clock in the evening, I had just taken a shower, my brother suddenly called, looking for me to borrow 100,000 to buy a car, I went to my husband to ask for money, unexpectedly, he scolded me: "Why do you want to borrow money again?" last time

At 11 o'clock in the evening, I had just taken a shower, my brother suddenly called, looking for me to borrow 100,000 to buy a car, I went to my husband to ask for money, unexpectedly, he scolded me: "Why do you want to borrow money again?" The last time the 200,000 yuan to buy a house, until now has not paid me back, do you want to live a good life, we will divorce! ”

I am Wang Caixia, 36 years old, my parents are rural people, there is a younger brother below, now I have worked, I am most fortunate to marry a rich husband, I love me very much, so life is not bad!

However, what I did not expect was that the following thing happened that made me doubt my husband's attitude and have the idea of divorcing him.

This is what happened 3 days ago, at 11 o'clock that night, I just took a shower at home and was doing blowing my hair in the living room, just at this time, my mobile phone rang, I saw that it was my brother calling, and it was connected!

My brother said to me, "Big sister, you must help me!" I'm not going to get married soon, but my girlfriend has to let me buy a car, otherwise she won't marry me, and now I'm still 100,000 yuan short, you quickly lend it to me! ”

As soon as I heard my brother was in such a hurry, I immediately said, "Okay, I know, isn't it such a small thing!" I'll go to your brother-in-law and ask him to give you money directly, rest assured! ”

In this way, I didn't think much about it, so I went to my husband to ask for money, because I knew that my husband still had 150,000 savings in his hand.

So, I went to the bedroom, smiled and said to my husband, "Husband! My brother bought a car, borrowed 100,000 yuan from me, and you will transfer the money to him in a moment! ”

Unexpectedly, after my husband listened, he directly did it and shouted at me: "Why do you want to borrow money from me again?" Do I have a bank at home? The last time I borrowed him to buy a house, the 200,000 yuan has not been repaid to me? Why should I borrow it again?"

When I heard my husband talk like this, I was suddenly anxious, and I pinched my waist and said to him, "What are you talking about?" I'm such a brother! Who made you his brother-in-law, so why not help him?"

I thought my husband would agree to my request when he saw that I was angry, because it was like this before!

Unexpectedly, my husband changed this time, and said to me coldly: "You touch your conscience and think about it, since we got married, how many things have I helped your family?" When your mother was hospitalized for cancer, I didn't say a word, and directly took out 100,000 to pay the hospitalization fee, which was my responsibility, and I wouldn't say anything!

But what does your brother's purchase of a house have to do with me? In order not to embarrass you, I endured and lent him 200,000 yuan, but this time to buy a car, I also let me borrow 50,000 yuan to him, why should I give you a son? I'm not his parent, and if you don't want to live a good life, then let's get a divorce! ”

I didn't expect that my husband would actually talk to me like this, and I was speechless by what he said!

I felt that I was not wrong, I couldn't step down at that time, so I put on my clothes, slammed the door and went straight out, hit a car, and went back to my mother's house overnight!

The next morning, I told my mother what had happened, and I wanted my mother to go to my husband to settle the account.

Unexpectedly, my mother sighed and yelled at my brother: "It's all your boy who doesn't understand things, it seems that I spoiled you, how can you hide from me to find your sister to borrow money?" Okay now, your sister they're going to get divorced? Are you satisfied? ”

My brother knew he was wrong, sat on the side, kept his head down and didn't dare to speak.

I saw that this scene was not right, so I said, "Mom, what's wrong with you?" How do you speak to outsiders? I'm such a brother, he doesn't ask me for help, so who should I look for? ”

Unexpectedly, before my mother could finish speaking, she directly interrupted me and shouted at me: "Shut up, do you dare to say these crooked reasoning, I didn't educate you well?" Your husband is not wrong, people help us that is love, not to help us that is the duty.

Besides, you have already married and started a family, you have to think about others, you can't always take care of your brother's business, your brother has the ability to get married, if you don't have the ability, then play the bare stick, now you hurry home! Live a good life with your husband! Leave your brother's business alone! ”

After my mother finished speaking, she turned around and went straight back to the house!

In desperation, I sighed and could only walk out of the house, and I walked slowly along the path outside the village.

I thought about it for a long time, I think it is still my mother's right, I think of my husband's usual tolerance and love for me, it seems that this time it is really my mistake, and my heart is full of guilt!

Everyone said that this time my husband told me that he was divorced, and now if I go back, will he forgive me?

@Best Life I would like to say

First of all: thank you for sharing, after reading what you said, this should be something that many people will encounter, after all, there is a difficult scripture in the family! Only after experiencing it, will you know how to cherish it!

Secondly: you have to believe in your husband, he is a good man with measurements, otherwise he would not help your family so many times, besides, when you were arguing, you were talking angry, it is impossible to take it seriously!

So I suggest: you hurry home, apologize to your husband, no matter what you do in the future, you must discuss it together, only in this way, your life will be happy and happy!

Finally: everyone must understand a truth:

In life, a person's personality does not have a very clear distinction between good and bad, more importantly, according to their own life environment and the people they face, make appropriate adjustments and get along with each other's comfortable personality, which is the best.

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