I graduated with a ph.D. at the age of 26, with an annual salary of 2 million, and I have not returned to my hometown for 10 consecutive years, because I do not understand these 5 truths of human feelings, which will make me destitute again. 1, poor do not go to relatives

I graduated with a ph.D. at the age of 26, with an annual salary of 2 million, and I have not returned to my hometown for 10 consecutive years, because I do not understand these 5 truths of human feelings, which will make me destitute again.

1. The poor do not leave their relatives, and the rich do not return to their hometowns. Those who insist on the past are in profit, and those who keep with the Si are destroyed in si. When you are poor, people are like thin paper, when you are rich, there is an endless stream of people who tend to be inflamed, when you are in a high position, all you see is flashy spring dreams; when you are in a humble place, you have the opportunity to see the truth of the world. If a person is poor and goes to his relatives, he will be rejected; in a state of coldness, the rich are even more rich than the poor; the jealous heart, the flesh and bones, are especially cruel to outsiders. When a rich man returns to his hometown, he will be alienated. To be poor and not to leave one's relatives is to be the backbone of a human being; if you are rich and do not return to your hometown, although you are helpless, it is also a wise move. When people reach middle age, they understand more and more that the so-called human sophistication is actually supported by money.

2, bland brothers, once rich into passers-by. Brothers want to be poor, and relatives want to be rich. The people who least want you to have a good life are often your relatives, and "loving rich" is an instinct of people, just like the phototropism of animals and plants. The lower the society, the more cruel the competition, it is common for people to love the rich, you can not do it yourself, but don't ask too much of others. No matter how the appearance of society changes, its essence is a peasant society. Farmers are characterized by a focus only on immediate interests. Talking about money hurts feelings, and not talking about money has no feelings. Relatives should be good at marrying far away, and neighbors should be good at hitting the wall. Good relatives, often those who are relatively far away, good neighbors, are rarely interacted with neighbors, people to middle age, if there are still these barriers between relatives, do not contact again, meaningless.

3, one person makes money in the whole village, and one person gets rich in the whole village. The people around you are not afraid of their own failures, but the success of their friends. There are few gratitude and gratitude to the world, and there are many ruthless worlds on the opposite side. Feed the dog for three days, he remembers you for three years, help others for three years, and remember three days. Any interpersonal relationship is essentially an exchange relationship. Only if the value is equal, it can be exchanged equally. It is not so much that human feelings are indifferent, but that human nature is so, and there is no need to be surprised, because people are seeking advantage and avoiding harm. People are based on strength, and indifferent human feelings are often stepping stones to enhance your strength. Only if you are strong enough, you don't need human affection to warm yourself. There is only one true heroism in the world, that is, after recognizing the human nature of seeking benefits and avoiding harm, still love the world. 

4, friends can really only "share hardships", but can not "the same rich", is due to the lack of common language caused by the lack of synchronization of interests. If the benefits brought about by the common point of interest can be greater than the losses caused by the points of conflict of interest, the enemy will become friends. Useful you, everyone wants, useless you, everyone laughs, a person is jealous of often not strangers flying yellow Tengda, but the people around you flying huang Tengda. The hidden meaning behind it is that he feels that he is not worse than him, and why it is not him who is developed. Good words do not dissuade the damned, and compassion does not kill others. The Buddha said, as it is, as it is. It's really hard.

5, the poor are showing off their wealth in a high profile, and the rich are low-key saying that they are poor. The richer the more low-key, but the poor are always very high-profile, and the hope of the poor is always a tool for the use of the rich. Poor people, if they want to get rid of poverty, will behave as high-profile as possible, hoping that rich people can look up to themselves. This mentality of the poor will always be a tool for the rich to use. Flaunting wealth is an action issued to meet a certain need. Under the law of the jungle, whoever has money destroys the ecological balance, so in the end, the richer the person, the more low-key. The real rich, even if they are proud, will not forget the form, always like to fight with people to get richer, and the result is often unbearable.

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