The essence of the world is natural selection, survival of the fittest, the law of the jungle. Only the strong can survive better, and the weak will involuntarily cling to the strong and move closer to the strong.
There is more of an equivalent exchange between people. If the weak have no value themselves, they cannot stand up straight in front of the strong, and they cannot exchange with the strong on an equal footing. The relationship between the weak and the strong is not solid, the value is not equal, and it is difficult for the weak side to get the real equal respect of the strong side.
Both men and women must be spiritually independent, material wealth independent, and independent in survival in society, and be a strong person. The strong do not only mean having material wealth, but also having culture, knowledge, wisdom, experience, feelings, trust, ethics, love, independent and complete personality, and so on. If you are worthless and powerless, the respect of others is only worthless. Even if someone toasts you, it is not out of genuine respect. This world is even the uprooting grass must rely on some strength.
Because the strong exist in strength, they do not need to hold up face, do not need to satisfy vanity, do not need to put up flower racks, and do not need to maintain self-esteem. The weak need to support the face in various ways, cover up the lack of strength, maintain psychological balance, and maintain the basic personality needed to support life.
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