A PhD mom, is a writer. I chose a high-end kindergarten for my daughter, and the tuition fee will cost fifteen thousand yuan per month. She feels that choosing a high-end kindergarten can cultivate children's elegant interests and hobbies. After a while, I found that my daughter had the same hobbies as ordinary kindergartens.
Here's the thing.
My daughter's first day of kindergarten was particularly good. The teacher rewarded her with a sticker of Princess Aisha, which was pasted on her clothes. The next day at school, the doctor's mother casually took it off. Because of this, the daughter stopped drying and cried. The doctor's mother said: If people who don't know, think that I "domestic violence" her.
It was from this day that she noticed a problem. That is, the degree of love my daughter for pasting is beyond the scope of her adult cognition. To what extent does my daughter like to sticker?
Walking on the road, if she finds a sticker dropped by other children on the ground, her daughter feels that she has found a treasure. Very happy and carefully brought home.
On the floor, on the walls, on the doors... All you can think of, or what you can't think of, is all kinds of stickers that your daughter has put on.
Usually when playing with other children's homes in the community, if you see other people's stickers and like them, if others give her one, they will psychologically recognize each other as good friends. If you have any good things, you want to share them with each other.
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There are really too many situations like this! As an adult, even a Ph.D., you don't understand. Why are children so obsessed with stickers? After all, it is a doctor, I don't understand it, and I have connections. After consulting the students in this area, 4 explanations were given to explain the charm of the sticker.
[Rose] 1, good looking.
For children aged 0 to 6, stickers are colorful and very popular. In addition, the current stickers are all cartoon idols that children like. Such a shape is more attractive to children.
Just like the daughter of this doctor's mother, she especially likes the little princess. There is no way to change the little princess's clothes, make a shape, and play with it.
[Rose] 2, stickers can be controlled.
When the child is two years old, he begins to enter the tactile sensitivity period. At this time, children have a psychology, that is, to grasp the small objects they can control through their hands.
And stickers, for children, can fully meet the needs of their control. In addition, through a series of actions such as "unveiling, sticking, and pasting", you can also cultivate children's fine movements.
[Rose] 3, stickers can be created.
Children belong to natural creators, and they can combine stickers as they wish. Moreover, you can also use your imagination to create stickers into your own work.
This process allows the child to get mental satisfaction. Therefore, they are more enthusiastic about pasting. In this process, they created a world for themselves.
[Rose] 4, stickers can be used as rewards.
In kindergarten, children who perform well are rewarded by the teacher. When teachers reward children, many times they use stickers. In the child's mind, such a view is formed, that stickers are rewards.
In many kindergartens, stickers are the magic weapon for teachers to manage children. As soon as the sticker is taken out, the children immediately become obedient.
Now I understand, why are stickers so popular? This has nothing to do with hobbies, the charm of the sticker is reflected in the fact that it caters to the psychological needs of children. This set of stickers is especially recommended, a total of 8 copies, which belong to the big open book of the little princess.
Not only can it be freely combined, but it is also a thick one. Otherwise, the child will be one per minute, and the parents will also be distressed. If you have children who love stickers at home, you can "take a look" and start a set. #这才是家庭教育 #
Concentration training little princess dress-up sticker 2~6 years old kindergarten early teaching