I am a single woman aged 43. At my age, many people should have another partner and a warm and happy family. However, love is so extravagant to me that I still live alone and have never been married. Not because I don't want to get married, or because I didn't marry at the wrong time, I wanted too much. When I don't need it, it always comes to me. When I really needed it, it seemed like a big joke on me and put my love in a very awkward position. I smiled bitterly. Maybe that's my life.
I am a sweet-looking, temperamental woman. With its plump figure, fair skin, sweet smile, and dotted with a variety of cosmetics, it's sparkling, dazzling, and imaginative.
As the saying goes: "A white cover is ugly, and a fat destroys everything." Fair skin is my biggest advantage. I've been very white since I was a kid, especially when I was growing up. Compared to my beautiful appearance, my upbringing was very bumpy.
I was born into a very ordinary and poor rural family. My parents had no stable career and had to do small businesses to support the family's normal expenses. Life is hard, but it's warm. I was the only child in the family. In order to give me a good environment to grow up in, my parents changed our lives with their hands, bringing earth-shaking changes to a poor and backward family.
However, when I was 9 years old, this wonderful life changed a lot. As a result of years of hard work, my father suffered from a serious illness. The money he had saved over the years had been depleted by illness, and he still owed a lot of foreign debt. To pay off the debt, my mother and I started raising a family. Since then, I've grown a little bit older and gradually developed a somewhat masculine personality.
My beautiful appearance makes me a target for many men. However, at that time, I couldn't talk about love. On the one hand, my father's situation has not improved and is getting worse. On the other hand, in the face of life pressures, I have a mentality of not admitting defeat. I think it was my mindset that made me let go of my childhood love. So I ignored the pursuits of many people and politely rejected them.
I dedicate myself to my career, work hard, share my worries for my mother, and solve problems for my family. Hard work pays off. With the help of my friends, my career has been a huge success, and the company I run has grown tremendously.
As my career entered a period of stability, my personal feelings were gradually put on the agenda. However, I was 38 years old at the time and became a real leftover woman. However, I am not yet at the age of blindness. Instead, I have my own criteria for choosing a spouse. I wouldn't stay with him because of his excellence or not contact him because of his poor condition. In my opinion, the external conditions of two people being together are secondary. The most important thing is whether they really agree with each other, whether they really care about each other, and will give everything for each other.
I've met several wonderful men, but I never made up my mind to be with them. Until a humorous and handsome young man changed everything for me. His name is Wang Ming, and he is eight years younger than me. He is a progressive, self-motivated person.
Wang Ming used to be a successful man. His career was ruined by mismanagement. In order to pay off his debts, he did a lot of work day and night. I admire his perseverance very much. At first, I turned down his pursuit, but after a long time, I thought carefully that maybe we could try it together. However, we have been in love for less than a year. I stumbled upon his secret. It turned out he had no real feelings for me. He already had other women. He was with me just for fun. In the days I was with me, I gave him everything and fulfilled all his needs. When I knew all this, I felt angry and felt how stupid I was.
This feeling was a huge blow to me. I haven't felt anything since I broke up with him. @ Xiaoli emotional story collection
After hearing such a story, how do you feel? I feel that Wang Ming may not have treated you sincerely, so he will deliberately deceive and not tell you, afraid that you know, what do you think? #情感 #