I don't know if you have watched the TV series "The World" recently.
Zhou Bingyi, the eldest son in the play, has always been the neighbor's "other people's child". Talented, he was later admitted to Peking University, and after the baptism of a state-owned factory, he finally went to the central government.
Zhou Bingyi truly fulfilled his parents' wish to see his son Jackie Chan, but he was doomed not to accompany his parents, because he had his own career, his own family, and his own pursuits.
The second daughter, Zhou Rong, was as good as her eldest brother, and after graduating from Peking University, she chose to become a professor at the university and later went to France.
A child like Zhou Rong will not stay with her parents, because she also has her own pursuits, her own persistence and ideals.
Finally, the third son, Zhou Bingkun, is relatively stupid compared with his older brother and sister.
When he was a child, his brain was not very bright, he was called "old knot" by his parents, his brothers and sisters also thought he was stupid, coupled with his own honesty, he could only go to the factory as a worker, and later opened a noodle shop.
Zhou Bingkun is destined to go far, which also allows him to accompany his parents, and his parents can appear at the first time when they are in trouble.
Parents always ask their children, what do they want to do when they grow up? The answer that they most want to hear is nothing more than the answer of scientists and teachers, in fact, parents are always reluctant to admit that their children will become an ordinary person.
"Hope to become a dragon" is the wish of every parent, but if it is found that the child is just an ordinary person, it is the most important thing to teach the child how to find happiness, happiness and stability in ordinary life.
Every child is growing up according to its own trajectory from birth, and parents always want to change their children and cultivate them to be what they want to become.
When tutoring his daughter with homework, Professor Ding often doubts life and even suffers from pain, but in the end, Professor Ding still accepts his daughter's ordinariness.
In a video, someone asked Professor Ding: "Can you accept that your child is not as good as you and cannot be admitted to Peking University?" Professor Ding was already very calm at that time, and responded: "It is completely acceptable, she is most likely unable to pass the examination." ”
At the same time, Professor Ding also said: It can be accepted, and it must also be accepted. No matter how good you are, your child is most likely an ordinary person, and parents should recognize this.
When the child is born, parents hope that the child will have a good future, but the reality is that even if you surpass your previous generation, your next generation may not necessarily surpass you.
But children also have their own thoughts and personalities, and they tend to develop in the direction they want to be, rather than what their parents want to be.
At the end of the day, we have to accept that our children will eventually become ordinary people.
Accepting the child's ordinariness does not mean letting the child grow up alone, the child is slow, the wrong way, but also need the help of parents.
Parents should use their love to help their children understand that even if I am not so good, I can still live happily in this world.
Parents can calm their minds, and children can break out of a full and meaningful life in their limited abilities.