Today we're going to talk about some secrets that some men often do but don't tell women. Of course, we can think of it as a spit conference to take everyone to understand, you may never have heard some words from men's mouths, take you to understand the inner world of men. I want to tell you that the state of men with their brothers and with their wives is definitely completely different. Sometimes there is a difference in the state of being with the brothers, and what is the difference? The wife is in and out.
When the wife is there, the sister-in-law is so beautiful, you are really blessed, the sister-in-law is so virtuous and content. When my wife was away, I had already seen that the mother-in-law was upset, and the last time I went to your house when you were not there, how did she tell me... Brother, you are tired. Some words between men are different, so today I say three and spit it out with everyone.
1, all betrayals start from picking the wife's fault
What are some of the most commonly used words? My relationship with my wife broke down, in fact, I and my wife are not suitable at all, there is no love at all over the years, our marriage is nominal, you don't know how much pain I have every day. What are these words? The first sign of out of G, tell a woman, you don't know, the big brother is bitter in his heart, the big brother is very tormented at home every day. Then exhale a sympathy from the other party, and then naturally tell the other party that you have a chance, and then create his way out of G step by step.
2) All stated love is purposeful
That is, if he righteously tells you, wife I love you, baby I love you, and so on, there is a purpose behind it. Of course, here I want to state that this purpose is good and bad, for example, when he proposed to you, he said, baby I love you, then his purpose is to get married, then this purpose is actually what you want, so there is nothing.
But if it is after marriage, for example, he is out of G, he tells you, wife, you can rest assured that I love you. The purpose is obvious: to stabilize you first. So sometimes, we have to understand a little, what is the purpose behind the man's words that I love you? Because the so-called true love does not need to be said, it does not need to be said, it is proved by action, and it is often said that what is on the surface is what is hidden, and the purpose is hidden.
3, do not want to take you into his circle
It's about leaving yourself a way back, for example, you never show up, his friends at parties, colleagues' dinners, brothers, especially in the circle of women. Why? Because you are still leaving a way out for yourself, don't believe what he says, this dinner is inconvenient, you don't want to participate in these dinners, right, to fool you, this is all leaving a way out for yourself.
Because for example, when you don't come at dinner, people may ask, why didn't your wife come, how will he answer, here refer to the first point of view, my relationship with my wife is broken, and then you may have to refer to the second sentence.
This is the secret that we summarize some men who are often doing, but are unwilling to say it, so since it is a spit conference, you can also think about it, what lessons are you after paying a heavy price, only to understand from men? Put it in our comments section.