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Raising girls is completely different from raising boys, because girls and boys are very different in their natural temperament, girls are mostly well-behaved, compared to boys' naughty extroversion, raising girls is more cautious and careful.
As the saying goes, "a girl is Daddy's little cotton jacket", girls are emotionally delicate, good at observation, and often able to do a lot of touching things.
Parenting a girl actually takes more energy and time from parents, and it's not easy to raise a good girl.
In the critical period of the girl's growth process, parents must remember to establish a correct concept for the girl to help the girl grow better.
3 sentences you should tell the girl as early as possible
Girls will inevitably experience various setbacks and difficulties in the process of growing up, but these experiences are also valuable experiences and life experiences.
If you want a girl to have a strong heart, there are 3 sentences that parents are best able to tell their children as soon as possible.
The first sentence: Be independent of yourself, not dependent or dependent
Everyone is a completely independent individual, and the same is true for girls.
Girls also need to get a good education, stick to the sports they love, and work hard to complete their studies, all in order to make themselves a unique self.
Parents should tell girls to be independent, to achieve excellent selves, not to be attached to anyone, not to rely on anyone.
Because the girl will one day leave her parents, the fuller her wings become, the higher she can fly higher and farther.
Independence is a kind of spiritual food, is a necessity in the process of girls' growth, and excellent girls must have independent characteristics.
On the contrary, those girls who are completely incapable of independence will surely experience the bitterness of social life after leaving the protection of their parents.
Because no one is going to open the spacious doors for you to exist.
Second sentence: Try to find the direction you really love
The existence of social people will definitely intersect with others, and girls are inevitable.
The process of growing up is a process of self-exploration and self-discovery, in which girls will constantly select and screen based on their personalities, preferences and strengths.
Eliminate some things that are not suitable for you or that you don't like, leave only those things that you really love and keep improving.
For example, when a girl tries a lot of sports and finds that her favorite is swimming, then parents must respect the girl's wishes and help the girl to constantly exercise her swimming skills, rather than blindly forcing the girl to learn to dance or draw.
It is very difficult to find what they really love, and girls must know how to cherish and insist, and the support of parents in this process is particularly important.
Third sentence: Don't pay too much attention to the sounds around you, be true to your heart
The same thing different people stand from different angles and see different results, which is determined by the nature of society.
When the girl makes a decision, she will definitely hear different voices around her, and there are certain and negative voices in these voices.
Girls can be true to their hearts when they encounter this situation, insist on their own opinions, listen to reasonable suggestions from others, and abandon unreasonable content and suggestions.
If the girl cares too much about the voices of the people around her, her heart will gradually be invaded, bringing herself infinite trouble, and doing things will also hesitate and hesitate, which will eventually lead to failure.
As a female friend said before, she said that the main reason why she was able to achieve wealth freedom in her 30s was because she had a very autonomous and independent personality, and she was bold and strategic, and she rarely adopted the opinions of others (some insignificant opinions).
This female friend dared to dare to do it, went to start a business when she was young, and accumulated a lot of wealth in a few years.
Of course, we are not here to let all girls go to business, but to let girls arrange their lives according to their own rhythms and preferences, and find the social value of their own existence.
Raising a girl is not easy, we not only have to provide some material life for the child, but also better ways to improve the spiritual world for the child, so that the girl can broaden her horizons, improve her temperament and cultivation.
Girls with independent minds and independent personalities will grow up to have an easier time to live happily because they have long learned how to see the world and themselves.
If you have a girl at home, you may wish to tell the girl these words as soon as possible so that the girl can live a happier life!
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