I don't dare to label Chaoshan men, I very much believe that there are Chaoshan men who are "willing to accept that there is no son in this life", but it is only a problem in my circle, and I have not met such a man for the time being.
I talked about a Chaoshan boyfriend in college, and he said more than once that he wanted to have three children after marriage, two men and one woman, the most perfect combination! He had two younger sisters of his own and didn't feel perfect.
Before I got married, the parents of a student (Chaoshan people) said that they wanted to introduce me to the object, and I asked if I had to have a son, and he said solemnly: A son must be there!
Last month, he met a post-90s Teochew brother who said he liked his daughter and liked her more than his son. I said if you could only have one, what would you hope? He said it was going to be a son. I said that if all three children are daughters (only three are currently open), will they continue to have children? He said that if the economy allowed, he would definitely have to give birth! I said I had to have a son, right? If you don't have a son, will it affect the relationship between husband and wife? He said it would definitely affect it more or less...
I believe that there must be Chaoshan men who can gladly accept that they have no sons in this life, but I have not yet met them. Maybe they're in the comments section?
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