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2 years ago, my wife went south to Guangdong to work. Her salary rose from 3,000 to 10,000 in a year, and someone in the village said, "Your wife has a big money, you divorced early."

author:Bright smile emotional problems

2 years ago, my wife went south to Guangdong to work. And her salary rose from 3,000 to 10,000 in a year, and someone in the village said: "Your wife has a big money, you should divorce it early." I decided to go to Guangdong to find her in person, but after learning about her profession, I was a little worried.

I am 36 years old, an authentic rural man, married for 12 years, with 2 small children in the family and elderly parents.

In the past, I had been working in Zhejiang to earn money to support my family, and my wife was taking care of the elderly and children at home.

However, 3 years ago, I had a physical problem, I was seriously ill, and after returning to my hometown to recuperate for half a year, I could no longer do heavy work, and the family's expenses were suddenly broken.

The wife said: "I will go out to work to earn money, and you will take care of them at home in the future." I hesitated about my wife's words. She had never been far away, and she didn't have much culture either. For men to go out to work, you can do some hard work, but what can a woman with no culture do?

But looking at the children who grow up day by day, as well as the parents who are getting old, they all need money, if there is no money at home, and there is an emergency in the future, what should they do?

I thought about it for a few days and agreed to let my wife go out to work. During that time, there were also a few women in our village who wanted to go out, and when I saw that my wife had a companion, I was able to relax my heart.

My wife and several women from the same village went south to Guangdong, and I also told my wife not to do too heavy work, but to pay attention to her body.

At first, the wife and them went into an electronics factory, with a salary of more than 3,000 yuan per month, and the wife sent back 2700, and she kept hundreds of yuan for living expenses. However, half a year later, her wife's salary also rose, and she could send back more than 5,000 per month.

I am also very relieved to see that my wife makes so much money, thinking that when I was working in Zhejiang, it was only about 5,000 per month.

When my wife went out for a year, her salary was actually more than 10,000, and she could send back a whole 10,000 yuan every month, which made me really a little hard to believe. Ordinary employees of electronics factories, even if they work overtime every day, their wages cannot reach 10,000 yuan.

So I asked my wife if she was doing an electronics factory, and my wife said: "I was in the electronics factory for the first six months, and I changed a garment processing factory later, although it was a little harder, but the treatment was not bad."

I was half-convinced of my wife's words, and I wasn't by her side, so I had to choose to believe her words.

That year, my wife did not come back for the New Year, she said that she would not take a holiday, in order to make money, I did not say much.

However, during the New Year's Day, the women from the same village who had gone out with their wives came back, and I asked them what my wife was doing and why the salary was so high.

They only know that my wife worked in the electronics factory for 3 months, and then resigned, and these women do not know what factory she has entered. I also asked them to help me find out if my wife was in a garment factory.

However, last year's New Year, my wife still did not come back, but her salary has risen to 13,000 per month. Although I was very happy counting the more than 10,000 yuan that my wife sent back every month, I had a bad feeling in my heart.

And this time, the women in the village said: "Qiangzi, we know what your wife is doing, she has a big money, and she has followed a rich old man, you should divorce it as soon as possible."

Hearing their words, I was stunned, and what I was worried about finally happened. Although my wife is a rural woman, she is beautiful, and I have always been afraid that she will abandon me and my children when she goes out.

I called my wife and asked her, but she said, "Don't listen to them, I'm in the garment factory, they're just jealous that I'm making a lot of money, you can rest assured, next year's New Year I'll go home."

However, after that, the matter of my wife's large amount of money spread all over the village, and for a while I became the laughing stock of the whole village, and it was even more the talk of the villagers after tea and dinner. Some people are jealous of me, some people pity me, but more than that, they laugh at me.

Every day I hear the gossip in the village, and I fidget.

Last week, I decided to go to Guangdong myself to see what my wife was doing. I asked my wife for the address of the garment factory, and I pretended to send her some food, and my wife liked the local souvenirs at home, so she also told me the address.

When I arrived in Guangzhou, I looked for the address sent by my wife, but the destination was a luxurious villa area. I was suddenly frightened, I felt bad in my heart, my wife had finally taken that road, and I was leaning on a rich man.

At the door, the security guard did not allow me to enter, and I immediately called my wife, and I said that I was at the door where she sent the address. Hearing my words, my wife was first surprised, and then she also came out to pick me up.

At the door, I asked her, "Why have you been lying to me, obviously doing something unseemly, but you want to say that you are in the garment factory"? The wife said, "Brother Qiang, it's not what you think, it's just that my job is not good, and I'm afraid you're worried, so I didn't dare to confess, in fact, I'm a housekeeper who serves others."

I know the profession of nanny, that is, the maid of other people's families, and I said, "I would rather you have a salary of 3,000 per month than you go to serve other men, go back with me, and then I will earn money to support my family, and you will stay at home and take care of the children."

The wife refused, she said, "Now I have a salary of tens of thousands of dollars a month, and if I miss this village, there will be no shop."

Not long after, a rich old man in his 70s came out, and when he learned who I was, he said, "Your wife is doing a good job in my house, don't worry, after a while, I'm giving her a raise, and we're not what you think we are."

My wife doesn't want to go back to the countryside, but should I believe her?

@Bright Smile Emotional Questions I would like to say:

There is no greater happiness between husband and wife than to love each other, respect each other, and trust each other. Your wife sends you back most of her salary every month, and from this point of view, at least she loves you, and I think you should trust her.

Nanny is not a shady profession, your health is not good, you can't make money, then your wife supports a home, you should choose to believe her. #情感 #

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