Adults think that children are small and have no aesthetics, so it doesn't matter what they wear, but now parents prefer to dress their children up beautifully, thinking that this is more likable, Xiaojing is such a parent.
Xiao Jing will dress up her daughter every day, all kinds of styles must be tried on her daughter, this day Xiao Jing also prepared beautiful clothes for her daughter, who knows that it is because of wearing, so that her daughter has encountered trouble.
It turned out that the daughter was dressed too gorgeously, she became an outlier among the children, other children were not close to her, Xiaojing's daughter could only play alone, because of this, the daughter complained to Xiaojing I don't know how many times.
Through the problems encountered by Xiaojing's daughter, we can know that there is also rejection between children, which may be differences in personality or differences in habits.
Of course, the most direct is the difference in appearance, if a child dresses too specifically, then he will become the target of crowd exclusion.
What should children pay attention to when they dress after entering kindergarten? The teacher recommends the best dressing rules
1, decent, not too avant-garde
Mothers themselves love to be pretty, and it is normal to want to dress their children, but mothers should understand that in order to avoid the phenomenon of exclusion between children, they must do something that can help their children integrate into the group.
For example, in terms of clothing, mothers can help their children choose some generous and appropriate clothes, without blindly pursuing better looking and more fashionable than others.
2. Choose clothes that are suitable for children
Some parents like to show off through their children, such as buying a brand name for their children, but doing so will not only isolate their children from others, but even teachers will reject their children, which will have a negative impact on their children's lives in kindergarten.
Parents should remember that choosing the most suitable clothes for children to wear at this stage, children will grow up slowly, the consumption of clothes is relatively fast, there is no need to invest money in the appearance of children.
What are the benefits of wearing the right clothes for a child?
1. Establish the concept of equality
If children want to integrate into the collective, they must first recognize the equality between people, and clothing can intuitively reflect the equal relationship between people.
If the child is dressed too gorgeously, the child will think that other children wearing ordinary clothes are inferior to themselves, so that not only the child rejects contact with others, but also cannot be accepted by others.
But if the child is dressed in line with the temperament of the kindergarten children, the class is all children of the same temperament, and the children will naturally integrate with each other.
2. Improve the overall quality
Children wear suitable clothes successfully integrated into the collective, then in the future life to do anything will be more smooth, children give full play to their potential ability, all aspects of the quality can be improved, try to ask such a child who does not like it?
Therefore, parents still have to consider a lot of things after their children enter the kindergarten, and in terms of children's clothing, parents have to do their homework in advance, and do not let their own unique aesthetics and collocation concepts affect their children's growth in school.