We always firmly believe that there are no children who can't teach well, only parents who can't teach. Every child is a treasure held in the palm of the hand by the parents, but to let the child grow up smoothly, it is not only necessary for the child to feel happy, but also to use appropriate methods to educate the child, what kind of education has what kind of child.
Children's shortcomings are taught by their parents, do not believe you to see:
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Children's shortcomings are taught by their parents
1, children are lazy and dependent because parents do too much for their children.
Now many children are brought by the older generation, and they are reluctant to let their children suffer a little. What you think hurts the child, is good for him, in fact, harms him, and in the long run, it is difficult for the child not to be lazy. Because he doesn't need to do anything, someone will do a good job for him, so parents and friends don't get used to your child, it is good to eat some pain appropriately, don't be reluctant to give up.
2, the child's lack of self-confidence, because the parents have too little encouragement to the child.
Many parents like to motivate their children in the way of blows when educating their children, but they do not know that your blows not only do not motivate your children, but really hit their children. Proper encouragement of the child will help the child to build good self-confidence.
3, children love to lie, because parents punish their children too much, not enough tolerance for him.
Why children lie, part of the reason is influenced by the people around them, and part of it comes from parents, parents often punish children, children will find a way to get rid of punishment, so how to get rid of it? Lying, the simplest way, at this time the child does not know that lying is wrong, only know that lying can be exempt from punishment, and slowly the habit of lying will be formed.
4, the child is timid and shy, because the parents often scold and even laugh at him.
Some parents have always had such a thought in their hearts, "What children know, what I say is right, what I do is right", when children have different ideas and practices from themselves, they often scold children or laugh at children, and every time children have some ideas or want to do something, they are ruthlessly scolded and ridiculed by their parents, and over time, there are ideas that become no ideas, and they want to do things become afraid to do things, and the timid character is formed.
5, children like to complain, because parents are often picky about their children.
This problem does not know from what era is handed down, anyway, many parents are always good children of others, often to criticize their own children, this is not as good as other people's children, that is not as good as other people's children, children do not complain to blame.
6, the child is not self-motivated, because the parents' requirements are too high, beyond the scope of the child's ability.
7, the child deliberately play tricks on the child, because the parents ignore the child's growth, did not focus on the child's body.
A table tells you that the shortcomings of children are often behind the shortcomings of family education
Parents hope to get more out of their children through homeschooling, and I believe that through our sharing today, everyone is inspired. Family education is a process of parent-child growth, and every parent needs to continuously improve.
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