Most Chinese parents are "authoritative", whether right or wrong, children also dare to be angry. This sets an example for the education of later children, "this is how your grandfather taught me." I am Teacher Wang in the parent class, and it is not easy to create, and I ask for attention.
"This little thing can't be done well, it's really stupid",
Sometimes, the child is not really stupid, but the child does not do exactly what the parent wants. Some impatient parents, open their mouths to come "this little thing can not be done well, it is really stupid", do not know this sentence, is very hurt the child's self-esteem.
"Why can't someone else's child do it, but you can't?"
This should be a common disease of parents, children are always the good of other people's families, most parents have said this sentence, but how many parents can experience the child's feelings when they hear this sentence? He will think that he just can't do it, inferior to others, parents are the mirror of the child, how you say, how he listens.
"Shut up, if you don't obey again, I'll leave you alone",
Sometimes, listen to how the child retorts and exercise the child's eloquence. Listening is the first step to good communication. "Do whatever you like, I'm too lazy to take care of you!" Many times, the child himself can not control his own behavior very well, even if he loses patience, do not give up casually.
I will often update my original articles on my public account [Parent Classroom 008], mainly talking about some thoughts and methods for improving parents' education for their children. The highest level of companionship is to "live out the admiration of children". Friendly discussions are welcome.