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On the Internet, the news of "a woman falling in love with her boss when she was applying for a job and was cheated of 180,000" rushed to the hot search.
When Miss Zhou was applying for a job in a company, she fell in love with the person in charge, Lu Mou, and lived a life of double accommodation and double flight.
When the two were in love, Lu began to borrow the first amount of money from Miss Zhou. Soon, Lu arranged for Miss Zhou to travel to other places on the grounds of the location of the branch.
Subsequently, Lu borrowed money from her many times for various reasons and promised to return it with salary. Miss Zhou, who was immersed in sweet words, did not suspect it, and borrowed more than 100,000 yuan from him before and after.
But 8 months passed, and Miss Zhou did not receive a penny of salary from beginning to end. Feeling strange, Miss Zhou returned from the field and found that the company had long since closed down. The reason why she was allowed to travel was because Lu's girlfriend of 4 years was coming.
It was an elaborate hoax that received widespread attention because the victim had called the police.
However, in daily life, there are many cases of being cheated by men. So, women have to learn to recognize whether a man is "good" to you and whether he has an ulterior motive.
There is a sentence in the comment that is extremely frightening: "High-end hunters often appear in the form of prey." ”
There is also a direct reminder: "Sisters, remember not to borrow money!" Regardless of self-esteem, look for the man who borrowed money from you, let's let him go. ”
The "love" that men say is often extremely confusing. Women in love believe everything they hear with their ears, so that their IQ drops to negative numbers and become the "prey" of men.
Remind women: the more "sweet" a man is to you, the more careful and wary you are.
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Men say "love" on their lips, but they actually have other plans in their hearts
Shakespeare said, "If love is mixed with calculations that have nothing to do with itself, it is not true love." ”
Indeed, once there is utilitarianism and scheming in the relationship, no matter how vigorous the love is, it is only a complete deception.
Supermodel and host Meng Guangmei was defrauded of 400 million yuan of property, not only ruined, but also owed a debt to relatives and friends.
Meng Guangmei's boyfriend, Corrado, is a tall and handsome Italian businessman, and he can be described as gentle and considerate to Meng Guangmei.
The first time, he borrowed 10 million Hong Kong dollars from Meng Guangmei, and then repaid it with interest.
Even A-list stars can't resist the temptation of sweet words, handsome and golden. Therefore, Meng Guangmei sold the house, took out her savings for many years, borrowed from her close friends and relatives, and gave the money to her boyfriend.
However, when she inadvertently looked through her boyfriend's bill, she found that the other party had spent 150,000 euros to find seven or eight escort girls to enjoy.
A super high expenditure bill made Meng Guangmei completely sober. The so-called investment projects are all made up. All along, the boyfriend has been rhetorical, self-directed, and cheated huge sums of money for squandering.
When the matter was revealed, Corrado disappeared overnight, leaving Meng Guangmei alone to clean up the mess.
Within a few years, Meng Guangmei was defrauded of 400 million yuan. The hard-earned money was wasted, and she was in debt, like a fish on a knife, ready to be slaughtered. Until now, this huge shadow has not been able to get out.
Such "love" is like a high fever that burns out everything. When the fever subsided, my heart kept shivering cold.
If men only stay on the lips of your "good", love is only superficial, and these cheap touches make women make wrong judgments and mistake hurt as happiness.
Men who are full of love words often hurt you the most; men who are attentive and prepared often have other plans.
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Take the man's sweet words seriously, and you lose
There is a saying in "Ordinary World": "Love should be truly based on real life." Otherwise, it is an unfit flower blooming on the tree of living life. ”
Wind and snow, romantic love, like brilliant fireworks, fleeting. What can stay and warm us is always the faint street lamp, although not hot, but enough to illuminate the way.
In the TV series "Thirty Only", "Sea King" Liang Zhengxian is a man like fireworks.
He is romantic and emotional, generous, well versed in the way of love, and even the heroine Who advocates female independence, Manny, has not escaped his love trap.
"When I'm not by your side, I'm afraid you'll be wronged. Your grievances, I am willing to use money to solve. ”
"Love is the purest, it is not bound by any power, only death is the only stop."
"I'm not going to waste every second with you..."
A round of sweet love words offensive, let the heroine unload her defenses, completely fall, fantasy and Prince Charming in harmony. Men keep making excuses to prevaricate: "I'm an unmarried person in pursuit of a purer relationship." ”
Until the man's legitimate girlfriend appeared, this prince, who looked like a prince who came out of the castle, finally put forward the ultimate dream of "one south and one north".
Fortunately, the heroine saw this "pure relationship" in time, and was determined to get rid of the entanglement with him, follow her heart, and be her own master, because there are still infinite possibilities in her life.
It is very dangerous for women to encounter this kind of man who only plays ambiguously, and his care is very good, in fact, he has countless women; his humor is golden, in fact, it is to cast a net to catch fish; his care and care are actually routines.
All the love that is not for the purpose of marriage is really playing "hooligans".
Such a "sea king", it seems to have paid money and feelings, in fact, he will not even give a promise. Such a relationship will only deplete a woman's sincerity and youth.
There is no pie in the sky that falls in vain, and how much vanity a man can give you can make you lose how much bland happiness.
A simple life is a happy life. Life is like this, and so is love. Complex human nature is not the norm for pure love.
To become a fish caught by "Aquaman" is destined to lose the qualification to travel life.
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True love is never just talk
Venus said: "When my daughter grows up, I will tell her that if a man complains that you don't take the bus on a rainy day, ignore him, and then go with the man who thinks of a way to give you an umbrella and pick you up from work." ”
It is true that men who truly love you are generally cautious. He will not rush to express himself, but think repeatedly, think repeatedly, even if he has paid a lot for you, he does not want you to have too much burden.
In a deep mountain at an altitude of 1500 meters in Chongqing, a long "love ladder" stands on the cliff.
This long-lasting love comes from a true story.
She was 10 years older than him, and on the day she got married at 16, he ran after her. This stems from a local custom that if you are fortunate enough to be touched by the bride, the position of the missing front teeth can be re-grown.
When she leaned her head out, he was stunned, and this glance was a lifetime.
In the ten years since she got married, she has experienced great changes in her life: four births, a family fall, and her husband has died, all of which have been silently watched by the teenager who chased her.
It wasn't until that time, when the teenager braved herself to save the mother and son who had fallen into the river, that she didn't know the name of the teenager.
After that, he ran to her house as soon as he had time, chopping firewood, carrying water, washing... Take on all kinds of heavy work.
I don't know what to do, but I go deeper.
Despite this, she still refused to be a teenager: "There are not many widows in front of the door, you are not young, and you will come to me less in the future." ”
However, the harsh words did not make the teenager flinch, in order to isolate all gossip and not let his lover suffer a little wrong, he took her and her children out of the village and lived in the mountains where people were rarely visited.
From the mountain to the market, there is almost no way to go, for the safety of his lover's travel, he has to drive a mountain road of more than 6,000 levels on the rugged and steep cliff.
Over the years, half a century of huge projects, from young men to crane-haired old men, every axe and every chisel is his lifelong commitment and care for his sweetheart.
Although the days were poor, he did his best to burn tiles and build houses for his beloved, cultivate the land, and live happily and contentedly.
Perhaps, they have no sweet words, no wind, flowers and snow, but if they can keep a true heart, they will foam at each other, and the plain years will be enough.
True love is like that long ladder, it requires the price of loneliness, the determination of determination, and the courage of commitment.
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Smart women's love rules: love a man again, don't be "gullible"
The most beautiful love in the world is not a talent with a beautiful person, nor is it a white rich beauty who finds a rich and handsome man. But when you are most depressed and helpless, there are still people who have a deep affection for you.
Therefore, you don't need to rush to pay in the early stage of love, master the rhythm of love, and use time to test your man.
The beauty of love is not heard with the ear, but with the eyes to see, what he really did for you. Feel with your heart the sincerity he has given you.