Why didn't ancient children have a rebellious period?

Why didn't ancient children have a rebellious period?

So many people say that the phenomenon of rebellion is normal, is this statement correct? Many of these ideas circulating in society today are specious, but they are actually wrong. We went to some junior high school and high school parent-teacher seminars, and many teachers said that it is inevitable that children will rebel at this age, and it is debatable.

China's thousands of years of history have never recorded that children must have rebelled when they were young in adolescence. This is the result, this result has borne fruit in these decades, this fruit has not borne fruit in thousands of years, then the people of our generation are really powerful, and this evil fruit is instantly borne, and our ancestors of China for thousands of years have not borne this fruit.

So why? The reason is that thousands of years of ancestors attach great importance to education, and the most important thing in education is filial piety, parents are filial piety to their children, so his children have the attitude of filial piety and respect for their elders from an early age, and they have a filial piety to their parents from an early age. Where did the inverse phenomenon come from? So I don't find out the real reason, just worry every day that my son will rebel in the future, and I don't know how many diseases will be scared out.

What kind of rebellion did my father's generation have! My father's generation of parents worked so hard, always thinking of reading well and being able to serve their adoptive parents. At my age, almost sixty or seventy percent of them rebelled, and I didn't, and I went to my mother to verify, saying, "Now we all say there is rebellion, do I have it?" My mom thought for a moment and said, "No, it's okay."

Therefore, when we have a reverence for our parents from an early age, when we are young, our parents are consistent in words and deeds, leading by example, and in our hearts, we only have respect for our parents, only fear, and reverence.

My parents had a break after we had eaten when we were young, and the two couples went into the room to read a book, so would our three children sit on the sofa and watch TV with Their legs crossed? Don't dare, obediently go to the book, so our family has never asked the children to read, my mother every time she goes upstairs, she tells us to go to sleep quickly, don't read it again.

So often my mother heard footsteps, and before she could go upstairs, my sister had already heard her voice, "Go to sleep, don't look anymore", because parents lead by example, so children naturally follow suit.

The ancients said that "the person who teaches by example" and the person who teaches by example will follow you; "the person who teaches the word" just demands in your mouth, you have not done it yourself, and in the end, the people in the family must quarrel, and the child must not obey your guidance.

So why can't the child teach well now, because the adults have not done it by example, and even the child is advising you, "Mom, don't play mahjong", you give him a beating, and then he will not listen to you, it is impossible to listen to you, and it is impossible to respect you.

Therefore, the parents "kissed" did not do it, the "jun" did not do it, the "teacher" did not do it, and some of them turned a blind eye when they should teach him, so they did not fulfill the responsibility of teaching the child.