How to deal with relatives' "marriage urging"?

The Spring Festival is approaching, and it is time for the annual marriage promotion competition. You are dragging your tired body back home, preparing to enjoy the "joy" of reunion, but you have to face the provocation of relatives to marry, do you want to think about it and "go crazy"?

Do not worry! At this time, what you see is the crystallization of human wisdom, how to face the marriage of relatives during the Spring Festival, we hold hands and hearts, and deal with it together! Remember! You've never been alone!

Go back

This is the most direct way, immediate results, instantly intensify your contradictions, so that the relatives' "marriage road" is full of thorns.

Of course, in the end, it is a relative, not old and dead, we must also be a little more advanced, and it is certainly not okay to open our mouths and say dirty words. Remember to have a good attitude, be civilized and polite, but you can scare him invisibly.

Like what:

Asked when you plan to get married, you replied: Yesterday.

What a clever answer! It's not that you don't want to get married, but yesterday is gone, time has broken your marriage plan, and we are not bitterer than anyone else.

Shift the subject

In addition to facing the unreasonable marriage urging problems of relatives, there can also be a more intelligent transfer of topic Dafa, although this will make people look very insincere, but for the nosy relatives who urge marriage, they may not be more sincere.

When relatives throw questions about marriage urging you, no matter what their problems are, as long as you talk about the international situation to men, talk to women about health and financial management, you can definitely turn the danger into a disaster! Properly debate with them on these issues and arouse their desire to win or lose, which can perfectly achieve the effect of eliminating marriage urging and exercising eloquence.

Shift yourself

It takes some brains to move the subject, and if you don't, it's a bit of a hassle. If you don't change the subject, then shift yourself.

When they asked where you were going, they simply replied: I'll go downstairs to see if there's anything I can get married.

When they asked you what was going on, they replied: No one in my dream urged marriage.

Reach a consensus and sing bitter love drama

Ignoring it all the time is not a long-term solution, occasionally listening to what they have to say, and then trying to reach a consensus, and then showing their inner grievances to win sympathy.

First of all, I agreed with their marriage urging, and then said that I also wanted to get married: I deeply felt that my delicate flower was gradually withering, but I couldn't find a big thief who loved to pick flowers, and sometimes I was angry at how the security was so good!

Another example:

Expressing that he super wants to get married, but there is resistance, several times he wants to forcibly tie up someone to get married, but the law seems not to allow it.

Make them laugh, it will make them think that you have listened, and the marriage will be calmed down (New Year's Day, don't you all want to see the sketches).

Turn passive into proactive

There's a saying that goes, "Offense is the best defense." "So it is very reasonable to start first, change passive to active, and it is also a good response plan to face marriage urging."

Relatives come to your house, and as soon as you enter the door, you say to them: How to be empty-handed in the New Year, and do not say to bring me an object.

In summary, how to deal with the marriage urging, I think everyone already has a number in mind, and I wish that your relatives will not be able to corrupt the rice.

Happy Chinese New Year to everyone in advance! In 2022, those who want to get married, and those who don't want to get married also have love.