There is a saying that is particularly well said: your good is like a piece of sugar to others, and when you eat it, it will be gone. On the contrary, your badness is like a scar to others, and it will be permanent when it is left. That's human nature.
In this world, you can never guess human nature. And some people are very strange, you help him seven points, he thinks you owe him three points, they are always right. And you obviously just used it, and the way they treated them, they actually got angry.
Therefore, Sheng Mien fights rice revenge, obviously you have a good heart to help others, but others complain that you did not help in the end. Such a human nature is really speechless.
01, a piece of kindness, the million dowry room lent to the little uncle to get married
Xu Min is the only daughter in the family, from childhood to adulthood, she has been well cared for by her parents, and has not experienced any bittersweet and bittersweet life. Even if Xu Min fell in love with a phoenix man from the countryside, his parents did not beat the Mandarin Duck with a stick and broke them up.
Therefore, in the two years before and after Xu Min got married, life has been very stable and rich. Although her husband's original family made her somewhat resistant and disgusted. But in order to give her husband face, Xu Min will not worry about her in-laws most of the time.
It's just that her good talk makes her in-laws think it's a good deal. In the first month of Xu Min's marriage, her mother-in-law began to cry poor and asked her eldest daughter-in-law to take out a dowry to help her in-laws pay off their debts. Xu Min was reluctant at first, but after her husband was soft and hard next to her, she had to take out 50,000 yuan.
And it is this 50,000 yuan that makes the mother-in-law think that Xu Min is good at talking. In the future, wherever the family needs money, the mother-in-law will ask Xu Min for money for the first time. Hindered by her husband's affection, Xu Min responds to every request. Although the amount of money asked by the mother-in-law is not much, but the number of times, Xu Min is also annoyed.
Later, Xu Min's parents demolished and divided a large house in their hometown. Considering that the daughter gave birth to a second child, the original marriage room was crowded, so the parents generously gave this demolition house to the daughter and son-in-law to live.
Moving into a new house, Xu Min's dowry room was idle. Before Xu Min could make any arrangements, her mother-in-law came with her little uncle to hear the news. The mother-in-law did not climb the Three Treasures Hall without anything, and as soon as she came, she directly asked for it, hoping that Xu Min could lend the dowry room to the little uncle to get married.
02, millions of dowry houses have not been repaid
The mother-in-law's request this time was a bit excessive, and Xu Min originally thought of directly rejecting it. After all, the dowry house that her parents bought for her is now worth millions of dollars. Live with your own family, and your parents will not object. But lending it to the little uncle to get married, the parents will definitely be a little unhappy.
Moreover, she is also afraid that the matter of Sheng Mien fighting rice revenge will happen to herself, after all, her mother-in-law is not a good stubble, and she is afraid of whether her dowry room will be borrowed or not.
But her mother-in-law and husband did not allow her to object, and the two joined forces to persuade her. For the sake of the family's harmony, Xu Min finally wavered and lent his millions of dowry rooms to his uncle to get married.
Just when borrowing a room, Xu Min did not expect that his own good intentions eventually became a joke for his in-laws. Because, her dowry room, until the little brother-in-law was married for five years, has not been able to recover it.
Xu Min has repeatedly explicitly hinted at her mother-in-law and little uncle, but they suddenly do not know. Every time Xu Min mentioned that he wanted to return the house, the little uncle and mother-in-law pretended to be deaf and dumb, and did not answer the call at all.
03, five years later, the house was forcefully recovered, but the mother-in-law scolded the daughter-in-law everywhere
The number of rejections is more, Xu Min is also angry, his dowry room, have been lent to the little uncle for five years, and now the little uncle is married and has a family, and has two children, but the house has never been returned.
Xu Min did not theorize with her in-laws anymore, but directly took her parents to the door to ask for a house. Looking at the real estate deeds and purchase invoices thrown out by Xu Min's parents, the mother-in-law and the little uncle had to admit it.
Originally, they still wanted to stay and not leave, but Xu Min's parents directly called the police, and the little uncle had to pack his bags and move the family away. Looking at the little uncle's family who had slipped away, Xu Min couldn't help but breathe a sigh of relief.
But Xu Min drove away the little uncle on the front foot, and the mother-in-law scolded the eldest daughter-in-law on the back foot for being cruel and unfilial, and drove her little uncle's family out of the house. Uninformed people have denounced Xu Min's unkindness.
Listening to the words spread by her mother-in-law everywhere, Xu Min felt for the first time that she was really kind and bad, and she should not have been soft-hearted in the first place, let alone soft-hearted when she repossessed the house, and she should have to take back the rent for the past five years.
The mother-in-law is like this, and the husband does not let go. Seizing the opportunity, he whispered in Xu Min's ear that Xu Min had made him lose face in front of his parents and brother. In order to force Xu Min to compromise, her husband also had a cold stalemate with him.
But Xu Min, who had been criticized by his in-laws, was completely unmoved. Even if her husband said it well, no matter how to intercede for his brother, Xu Min would not be so stupid as to go to the second time. In the future, no matter who it is, they will want to borrow her dowry room.
Today's Topic:
Do you think Xu Min's tough way of taking back the house is done right?