There is an aunt next to me, and the family is a double female household. The eldest daughter is looking for a family of two brothers, and lives in a relatively remote rural area, and the family conditions are not very good.
The aunt's eldest daughter worked as a nurse in the county hospital, and an acquaintance introduced the doctors in the hospital in their town.
The two people talked for a while and got married, the boy has a better personality, no matter what he does, he laughs and hehehe
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Not long after the woman became pregnant, the pregnancy was found out of the placenta previa, the family was not assured that the girl lived alone in the county, and in addition to the physical condition, the girl resigned from the county.
When the boy and the girl talked before, the two are long-distance love, the personalities of both sides are not particularly well understood, and when adding the filter blessing when in love, both sides feel that each other is very good.
After actually living together, I found that the personalities of both sides were different from what I imagined. Boys have a mild personality, but they are more grinding and like to think in pieces. Girls will be impatient a lot, do not like to say anything, are stuffy in the heart, can not see the past to do it themselves, never ask the boy to help, the boy has never taken the initiative to help.
It was in this way that their little child was born, a cute little boy. Because the girls want to continue to work, they are faced with the problem of who will bring the children, the girls' parents are busy in business, there is no way to help bring, and finally the boy's mother came to help bring.
Their contradictions began to deepen from this time, because the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law were not the same, and they often quarreled over a little thing.
In addition to the boy and an older brother who is not married, the boy's mother was originally unwilling to help the child, and did not give living expenses, felt that he had to go to work and still had some salary, and did not want to take the child, and finally there was no way for the aunt not to do business to help bring.
They are still the same as before, eating and living with the aunt, and even the aunt will pay part of the child's expenses.
The two of them worked for several years, and because of the small expenses, they saved some money. The girl wants to buy a house, the boy wants to buy a car, because the boy's brother bought a car, most of the people in their village also bought a car, think that buying a car back has a little face, the girl did not convince the boy, and finally bought the car in full, and the savings were almost spent.
They lived with the aunt for another three years, and for three years, except for the first few months, they gave a little living expenses, and there was no living expenses at all.
When their children were three years old, the girls became pregnant again. At this time, the boy clearly pointed out that he hoped that the second child was a boy, because his brother was not yet married, and was an older young man, hoping that when his child grew up, when his brother was old, he could take care of his brother, the girl was very angry, they had a big fight, and finally there was no intention of the boy, their second child was a girl.
The girl's two births were caesarean sections, and when she was still in the hospital, the boy and his mother said that they hoped to have three children, and they felt that people were lively. The girl was really angry after hearing it, and immediately scolded back and said that whoever wants to be born will find whom, and she will die. The aunt also said next to her that she was still in the hospital, and that the days would not pass, and if they did not want to live, they would not be able to live, and they finally broke up.
After being discharged from the hospital, they still lived in their aunt's house. Because the two children's aunt could not bring it alone, the boy's mother did not know where to hear, the aunt wanted to take one of the two children with the girl's side of the surname, immediately ran to the aunt's house and said that she came to help bring, so the boy and girl's family, including the boy's mother, lived in the aunt's house.
Still do not give any living expenses, but also often because of a little matter, in front of the aunt and her husband quarrel. The aunt and the two were very angry, thinking that they were living with them, and the boys and girls did not pay living expenses, they helped with the children, and they often quarreled.
Once the aunt broke out, let the words come out, if they quarrel, they will move out, or they will move out with their young daughters.
The girl and the boy still felt that the aunt and the two sons were inconsiderate of them, knowing that they had no money, and they had to drive them out to live.
The aunt said that she really regretted why we lived together at that time, and this day I was not pleased.
When I heard about this, I really felt that Sheng Meen was fighting for mi vengeance. You don't have enough money to buy a house, you can ask your aunt to borrow, these payments are in the clear, and now it is clear that aunts have paid, and they feel that aunts have not helped anything.
I think after getting married, the two sides still withdraw from the original family, the two people re-form a small family, and have a little distance from their parents, so that the relationship between the two sides will be better, after all, there is an old saying that "far incense, near smell?" ”