After the child goes to school, the most headache for parents is to help the child write homework. On the surface, homework is assigned to the child by the teacher, but in fact, the parent is the most tired. Usually, parents and children get along very happily, often a picture of motherly kindness and filial piety.
However, when it comes to children's homework, the style of painting changes, usually "chicken flying dog jumping", the current situation of 90% of families with children in China is the same. But chinese parents are not the only ones in the difficulty of tutoring their children's homework, but also foreign parents.
Foreign fathers accompanied their children to write homework to the point of collapse, and wrote a line for three hours
After the implementation of the double reduction policy, students' homework after school is much less, especially for students in the lower grades of primary school, teachers almost do not assign paper and pencil homework. Although the learning burden of students has been reduced under the double reduction policy, the difficulty of the middle school entrance examination and the college entrance examination has not been reduced, and the competition is becoming more and more fierce.
In this case, in order to allow their children to enter good high schools and universities, parents dare not slack off in the slightest on the issue of their children's learning.
Take the first and second grade students of primary school, even if the teacher does not assign homework and does not take the final exam, parents will still assign learning tasks to their children every day, mainly to prevent their children from losing at the starting line.
A mother posted a video of her husband helping her children write homework on the Internet, and it didn't take long for the video to "catch fire". The mother is a Chinese, her husband is American, and the two have settled in Chengdu after they got married. Since their children went to school, their homework has been tutored by their mothers, and in the eyes of the children, the mother is very strict, and the father has always been very kind.
One night, the American father offered to accompany his child to write homework one night. What the foreign father did not expect was that it took the child three hours to write a line of Chinese characters. Looking at the child who was so abrasive, the father's emotions were out of control, and he was so angry that he "ran away" on the ground, seeing that his demeanor seemed to be about to collapse, and loudly reprimanded the child for not being able to leave the room after writing.
Parents all over the world are in the same state when it comes to tutoring their children with homework
Netizens have felt relieved after seeing this video, some netizens said: "I thought that foreign parents are very Buddhist, advocating happy education, did not expect that they and domestic parents, will also be "mad" by the child's homework. Some netizens also feel that the reason why this foreign father collapsed so much may be because he stayed in China for too long and was assimilated by Chinese parents, which is the so-called "going into the countryside and following customs".
Tutoring children to learn is something that every parent has to go through, even if the parents are unwilling, there is no way, because this is an unavoidable responsibility.
Now there are some children who are really angry, do not study, do not write homework, as long as they study or write homework, either thirsty or hungry, or always run to the toilet, simply do not spend their minds on learning and writing homework. Some parents are angry and often scold, or even directly beat up.
However, scolding children can not play a practical effect, often will cause their rebellion, so parents in the face of "bear children", try not to use scolding education methods, first find the reason why children do not love to learn, and then "the right medicine", so that children can have substantial changes.
What should parents do about their children's learning problems?
First of all, cultivate children's ability to learn independently. Most children's independent learning ability is relatively poor, always relying on parents, and even the homework assigned by the teacher is not remembered. When doing problems at home, if you encounter someone you can't, ask your parents, or simply empty, waiting for the teacher to go to class, and don't think about it at all.
After writing homework, I was liberated, and the desk and school bag were waiting for parents to help clean up, and I either went out to play or watched TV.
For such children, the appropriate letting go of the parents is really for their own good. Parents should cultivate their children's ability and habit of independent learning, and let children know that learning is not the task of teachers and parents, but their own business.
Second, we must educate children to persist in learning. I can always hear some parents say to their children: Now you study hard, and when you are admitted to college, you will be relaxed, and then you will not have to study. Many students have listened to their parents' words, did not study seriously after being admitted to college, were absent-minded in class, and played with mobile phones all day, and have since fallen like this.
In fact, no matter when you have to study, even if you work, you can't give up learning. Parents should let their children understand that in today's society, backwardness will be eliminated. Live to be old, learn old, parents should help their children develop good habits of insisting on learning, so that children can have better development in the future.
Finally, try not to scold your child. Parents should know that good children are not scolded, but the result of hard work. The saying "filial piety under the stick" is not suitable for today's education methods, and the scolding of parents on children will not make children realize the importance of reading, but will only leave psychological shadows on children, and even endanger children's physical and mental health.
All in all, there is no fixed method of education, parents should take an educational method suitable for their children according to the actual situation of their children, and in the process of educating children, they should not be in a hurry, and they must be patient
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