As Russell said, "If a marriage breaks down, divorce is broken, because divorce is an institution that exists because of marriage, and divorce is the safety valve of marriage." ”
The first marriage is still like this, the second marriage is the same, for the couple who want to marry for the second time, their vision of marriage is not as warm as before, for them who have experienced a marriage, remarrying or single, in fact, are the choices made after weighing the pros and cons. Some people want to have high-quality solitude after divorce, and they don't have children to worry about, they naturally choose to live alone; but some people may not want to live on their own, and will look for someone who has common interests with them to remarry because of loneliness and children, which is all right.
Having experienced marriage changes, for people who have had two periods, which person is not good to get along with the answer, it is said that the couple of the second marriage is a thief, in fact, this is obviously a prejudice against the remarriage of marriage, the lover of the second marriage is not necessarily worse than the first marriage, it depends on whether the two people are willing to be honest with each other.
Tang Feng now feels very happy, but also very content, he feels that he can marry a woman like Liu Ying, it is really good luck, he and Liu Ying are second marriage, the two people are remarried families, although many people around him say that women who are married for the second time are difficult to feed, saying that women who are married for the second time are not good, but Tang Feng has never thought of it this way.
The reason why Tang Feng feels that the second marriage is happy now is not only because he and Liu Ying have a common child, but more because Liu Ying is really very good, she is a good mother, a good wife is also a good helper, the two people together can also be regarded as a strong union, life is getting better and better, but there is no economic dispute between them, life is as sweet as honey.
Tang Feng was not so lucky in the first marriage, the reason why he and his ex-wife divorced was because his ex-wife hated him poorly, and his ex-wife married him for more than three years, leaving him with a daughter, because Tang Feng failed to successfully promote, and his ex-wife divorced him without saying a word.
To tell the truth, when the two people were together, they did not see how happy they were, just married, Tang Feng's family's economic conditions were good, but then the store opened by his parents had a problem, Tang Feng also faced a bottleneck in his career, and his ex-wife did not want to suffer with him.
Tang Feng, who knows that there is no money and no love, is determined to help his parents make a comeback, and he also strives to improve himself and desperately earn money, and in the three years after divorcing his wife, he has not considered marriage again, until he has been promoted to his parents' shop has also improved, he is relieved. When the good life returned, the ex-wife was red-eyed, and ran back to apologize to him, wanting to remarry with him, this time it was Tang Feng's turn to be unwilling, he not only refused the ex-wife's request for remarriage, but also asked his friends to find several good second marriage partners for himself.
In fact, in Tang Feng's side, there are indeed several women who take the initiative to give him a hug, there are several are just graduated college students, although they are very beautiful, but Tang Feng knows in his heart that what attracts them is only the title of diamond king old fifth, but he wants to find a woman who can live a life and be down-to-earth, so he chooses a thousand choices, and he met Liu Ying.
He and Liu Ying originally did not have much intersection, and later met at a time of work, Tang Feng was very appreciative of Liu Ying's unique insights, the two became friends, and it was also after becoming friends that he knew that Liu Ying was not easy. After Liu Ying's ex-husband cheated, Liu Ying divorced with her son, she took her son alone, and she had to work and take care of the family, and occasionally subsidized her mother's family.
Tang Feng was very sympathetic to Liu Ying's suffering, and he had always treated their mother and son very well, the two people got along for about half a year, Tang Feng confessed to Liu Ying, Liu Ying also knew Tang Feng's economic situation, and the two people could also help each other at work, so they tried to be together.
Now the two people have entered the marriage hall, it has been more than five years, and there is their own love crystal, because after marriage, Liu Ying is also very good to his daughter, and Tang Feng also regards Liu Ying's son as his own, so the family of five is really very happy.
Moreover, in the past five years, the careers of the two people have developed by leaps and bounds, they have won many cases together, made a lot of money, and now, the two people have also opened a small shop of their own, and now their lives are getting better and better, anyway, Tang Feng has never regretted marrying Liu Ying, in his heart, Liu Ying is much better than the original match.
Tang Feng said: "In marriage, whether your lover is good or not is not related to the first time you have married, but to see the character of the other party, if you meet someone unladylike, like I met my ex-wife snobbish eyes before, I did not trust me enough, I have no confidence in people, no matter how hard I try, I may not be able to fight she likes, she is looking at money is not looking at me, but I am different from Liu Ying, she is willing to believe in me in the second marriage, trust me and help me, work together for our future, although we are second marriage, but better than the first marriage." ”
In the final analysis, most of the reasons why two people are so happy in their second marriage is that Liu Ying can achieve economic independence and have her own career after marriage, which can not only ensure that she has confidence in marriage, but also ensure that the two people have more common topics, so that the relationship between the two people becomes more intimate. For most divorced women, financial independence is the guarantee of their leanings, and it is precisely this that can be a plus for others to appreciate her.
Warren Buffett once said, "The most important decision in your life is who you marry." ”
Whether you marry someone or a wife, it is all about your character and what the other person has done, not at the first time you have been married. If the person you meet for the first time is very good, it is a beautiful conversation for two people to help each other to the old age, but if you meet someone unladylike for the first time, then the second time you meet someone who is connected and honest with each other, you can finally get happiness.
Although many people have opinions about women who are married twice, they feel that married women cannot devote themselves wholeheartedly in the remarried marriage, may have selfish intentions in the marriage, and will not pay 100% to the marriage of the second marriage, but I don't think so, is it not the right to be loved if you have been hurt once?
Of course not, the object of the first marriage is not good enough, and there are many couples who meet their true love in the second marriage, such as the love of Yuan Hong and Zhang Xinyi, and their second marriage is still dazzling and enviable.
Therefore, regardless of men and women, if the first marriage is not happy enough, do not lose hope when you meet someone who is not ladylike, and do not think too extreme about the second marriage, thinking that you will still fail. Those who feel that the second marriage is not happy, probably the second time did not find the right person, so they will feel that the life of the second marriage is not happy, people will only feel that the original match is good when they are unhappy, and only when they find the right person, they will feel that remarriage is worth it.
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