Writer Zweig said that all the gifts in fate have long been secretly marked with prices.
This sentence tells us that in real life, when you indulge in the comfort of a certain thing, you must also pay for this enjoyment.
It is often said that life is bittersweet, some people's lives are first sweet and then bitter, and some people are first bitter and then sweet. For example, in married life, some people consume excessively in order to pursue immediate pleasures, so that they will fall into a dilemma in their future married life.
In the French writer Flaubert's Madame Bovary, the heroine Emma is a lady who lives in desire and fantasy, and squanders excessive money in pursuit of the enjoyment of the moment.
Because Emma is reluctant to plan for her future with her husband, Charles Bovary, she ends up facing a fate of innumerable debts and pushing her life to a tragic end.
The lesson of the novel "Madame Bovary" is that people who do not know how to plan ahead in married life are likely to be defeated by real-life trivia.
First, marriage is two people each forming a family, and husband and wife should know how to think about each other.
When a couple enters the palace of marriage hand in hand and combines into a couple, they become a community of interests to some extent, and only when both of them know how to think about each other can they jointly run a happy married life.
In the novel "Madame Bovary", although Emma is married to Mr. Bovary, she feels that the married life is not as perfect as she imagined, and she feels that her husband is a wooden person, incomprehensible, and not the other half of her ideal.
Because of this, Emma is reluctant to devote her energy to married life, nor is she willing to plan for Mr. Bovary's future, which makes her both splurge on money and the mistake of betraying the marriage.
Marriage is a matter of two people, and it is precisely because Emma does not understand this truth, so she is not willing to think about her husband, Mr. Bovary, and is unwilling to create and plan the future of two people through hard work, which makes her personally push her married life to a tragic end.
Second, in married life, a virtuous wife knows how to live within her means.
Girls are naturally more careful than boys, and when they enter married life, if she really loves her husband, she will have a long-term plan for the lives of the two of them, and she will also pay attention to a careful budget when living.
As a wife, you should focus on the overall situation of family life, determine your own expenses according to family income, which is the embodiment of caring for the family, and the profligate behavior of only caring for your own pleasure will only push yourself and the family into the abyss.
In the novel Madame Bovary, Emma's profligate behavior in order to pursue the quality of life proves that she is not willing to run a good marriage with her husband and has no plans for the future between the two.
Because of this, Emma will eventually bear a huge debt and push her life to a tragic end.
Third, in married life, couples should know how to make a long-term plan for the feelings between two people.
The mutual fidelity between husband and wife is the basis for the stability of the marital relationship between the two.
If you want to manage your married life happily for a long time, you must know how to be loyal to marriage and let your marriage partner feel a sense of belonging.
In the novel Madame Bovary, Emma is dissatisfied with her husband, Mr. Bovary, and thinks he has no interest, so she ends up making the mistake of betraying the marriage and wants to find love outside the marriage.
The lack of fidelity in the marriage relationship is doomed to be unstable, and it is precisely because Emma cannot focus her energy on family life that she chooses to betray the marriage, which makes her finally destroy her originally happy marriage with her own hands.
The novel "Madame Bovary" tells us that people who do not have far-sighted plans in their married life will feel troubled by the trivial married life of the moment.
It is precisely because Emma does not put her energy into the married life and is unwilling to plan the future with her husband, Mr. Bovary, that she will splurge in the married life and make the mistake of betraying the marriage, she will make herself feel distressed by the trivial matters in front of her, and eventually fall into a tragic end in her life.
Marriage is a matter of two people, and only when the husband and wife are willing to plan the future of the two people together and make efforts for it, can they make the married life happy and satisfying.
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