Ms. Marjorie Gunnoe, a professor of psychology at the University of Michigan in the United States, said in an international conference that just like being famous, it is necessary to beat children early, and the best is between the ages of 2 and 6.
Marjorie Gunnoe has studied corporal punishment in children for more than 10 years, and in one study, Marjorie Gunnoe found that children who were beaten up to the age of 6 had better grades and personality traits than those who had never been beaten.
Although it does not adhere to the educational concept of "filial piety under the stick", the use of language to educate children has little effect, and sometimes "violent" education is desirable.
Even Professor Li Meijin recognized that the child should be beaten, Professor Li Meijin means: people should form something in the process of growing up, in addition to love and respect and fear, if the child breaks the law, punishment is actually a kind of protection, let him know to be afraid, know regret, and never dare to dare again, is really to protect him.
Professor Li Meijin: Children have 4 behaviors not to get used to, they should be beaten, and it is difficult to correct them after the age of 6
3-6-year-old children's ability to recognize and understand things is enhanced, with self-awareness, is the key period for the formation of children's personality, during this period, parents do not correctly educate their children, it will affect the child's personality development.
Therefore, when the child makes mistakes during this time, parents must help correct them in time to prevent the child from going farther and farther on the wrong road, and it is really difficult to correct after the age of 6.
The child loses his temper and yells, and when it is time to fight, he must be beaten
When forming self-awareness, the child will enter a rebellious early stage, when the child will lose his temper, shout, and even throw things when he encounters a bad heart.
Children have this behavior because the emotions do not know how to vent, can only follow the instinct to do some destruction, for the child's behavior parents should be timely appeased and language education.
The first language reminder, the second language reminder, but if the child has a third and fourth time, the parents should have to fight when they do not change, otherwise it will be more difficult to correct later.
If they are not satisfied, they threaten their parents, and they must fight when they should fight
Don't look at the child's young age, small head, but the heart and eyes are not small, from the time the child can see the world clearly, he has been looking at the parents, seeing the parents' faces.
If parents let their children feel spoiled, the children will become more and more bold and the demands will become more and more unreasonable.
When the requirements are not met, they will threaten the parents, it may be crying, or it may be rolling in front of outsiders, in short, the child will rack his brains to take advantage of the weaknesses of the parents to threaten.
When children have such behavior, regardless of whether the requirements are reasonable or not, parents must educate, so that children understand that they cannot compromise in this way and must not let go.
Otherwise, in the future, the child will become more intense, making the parents more humiliated, and when necessary, the parents should also fight, don't get used to it.
Disrespectful, impolite, should be beaten
Today's children are the treasures of the family, extremely egotistical by their parents, do not know how to respect people at all, and are not polite when they get help from others, as if they feel that being good to themselves is taken for granted.
When parents find that their children have disrespectful behavior, do not get used to it, they should fight, especially in the face of elders, parents should not forget their character while paying attention to their children's learning, otherwise it is useless for children to learn no matter how well they are.
If you don't abide by the rules and sabotage, you must fight when you should fight
No rules are not square, no matter where to abide by the rules, parents are best to help their children establish a sense of rules as soon as possible, otherwise they will be spoiled by their own families, but when they go outside, who will get used to it, sooner or later someone will look bad and let the child suffer a big loss.
Instead of being educated by others in the future, parents should educate their children from the beginning, and when they encounter children who do not abide by the rules and engage in destruction, parents should educate and help correct them as soon as possible.
When the child is repeatedly taught, it should be beaten, and the parents blindly spoil the child will only spoil the child, when the child is happy, but when he grows up, there is a big loss waiting for the child to eat.
Parents' doting on their children will eventually ruin their children's lives
In daily life, we can often see that children scold their parents, give and take, parents are not satisfied and begin to lose their temper, we criticize the child's white-eyed wolf does not understand things at the same time, whether we have considered who caused these.
There are no natural bear children in the world, only natural bear parents, because parents do not educate their children well, resulting in children not knowing what is right and wrong, and everything acts with wrong cognition, and naturally the more wrong they are.
Parents' doting on their children will eventually ruin their children's lives, rather than letting children suffer in the future, it is better to let children suffer a little when they are young, at least the children can be excellent in the future.
Parenting message
Parents are not encouraged to beat their children, but when necessary, parents must also do it, only in this way can the children become more and more excellent.
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