"Wen | Pistachio Mom (original article, welcome to personal reprint and share)"
In the delivery room, it seems that the woman is the protagonist.
However, for the mother, there is a person who has a great influence on herself, that is, the husband who accompanies the birth. Because this is not only a battlefield for women, but also a "performance field" for whether the future relationship between husband and wife is harmonious!
The women in the delivery room, with nothing else to be busy with, have occasional pains, so that they can only be busy giving birth. So, as the father of the child, what are these men busy with?
Through the field observation of the delivery room, Guo Mama took everyone to take a closer look at the strange paternity behavior of the fathers, which is really only what we can't think of, and no man can't do it.
01 Women are busy having children, what are men busy with? Take a closer look at the strange paternity behavior of the fathers
For some strange paternity behaviors, if it is someone else's husband, then you can laugh through the belly, but if it is your own husband, it is simply angry to explode!
The first: ritual type
The wife is about to give birth, and the fathers are thinking about how to record this sacred moment.
Therefore, this type of father, even if the pregnant mother is full of vicious and sloppy, he can easily record it, without the slightest regard for the feelings of the mother. The moment bao mom saw the photo, she was eager to beat her husband up!
The second type: hyperactivity
The mother needs to work hard, and although Bao Dad can't use the force, it doesn't prevent Bao Dad from excitedly cheering for Bao Mom!
Friends shared their husbands in the time of childbirth, too excited, the doctor taught the mother how to use force, before all was said, the husband repeated to the friend super loud, from time to time also shouted "wife cheers" loudly.
Then, the friend couldn't bear to say, "I'm not deaf!" ”
The doctor couldn't help but poke him: "Be quiet or go out!" ”
The excited bao dad is actually just a moment of excitement, but it is really too noisy.
The third type: apathy
It's not so much indifference as there is no responsibility.
Some women are experiencing the pain of childbirth, but Bao Dad does not care about himself, continues to play with his mobile phone, and even more, he and friends go out to drink and eat.
When encountering this kind of bao dad, it can only be said that it is unfortunate.
The fourth type: emotional fragility type
Have you ever seen a mother comfort a father-to-be? Guo Mama has seen it.
When Guo Ma gave birth to pistachios, bao dad in the next bed saw that bao ma was in severe pain, and he cried out in pain, saying bluntly, he must not have a second child, and do not let his wife suffer.
While the mother bears the pain of contractions, she also has to comfort her husband: it is okay, it hurts to give birth to a child; don't be afraid, it won't hurt after giving birth...
That scene, it was amazing.
Emotional fragility and sensitivity are not a woman's nature, and some men do the same. At this time, there is still a need for maternity to encourage the father-to-be, and there is no one left.
The fifth type: panic type
Some fathers know the dangers of having children, while some women who give birth to a child may take a long time to give birth. At this time, the panicked bao dad already had countless imaginations in his mind: to protect the big and the small, the last words of his wife, the last thing he could do for his wife...
A tragic series, almost completed.
This type of bao dad, even if it is to sign a list of painless and caesarean section, will be frightened.
Sixth: superstitious type
When the cousin gave birth, the mother was also waiting outside the delivery room, and at the beginning, the situation did not seem to be very good, and the cousin was anxious to go back and forth.
Then, he suddenly called his parents in his hometown and asked them to hurry up and buy gao xiangyao.
Guo Mom listened to it with heartache and funny, the heartache is that the cousin suffered in it, the situation is still relatively critical, the funny thing is that our hometown is also superstitious about the old people, the cousin husband is sick and rushed to the doctor, and began to believe in Buddhism.
In some places, it is still more superstitious, and women always have to have a "sense of ceremony" when they give birth to children. In fact, these "rituals" as long as they do not harm the pregnant mother and fetus.
Seventh: unreliable type
Giving birth to a child is not just the end of the pregnant mother going to the hospital to give birth.
Waiting for delivery packages, various materials, ID cards, bank cards, hospitalization, etc., basically entered the hospital, they have been holding all kinds of busy work with materials, signing various words, and listening to various instructions from doctors.
The whole process, but any omission, is very troublesome!
Therefore, there are also those unreliable bao dads, either forgot to take the diaper and did not wet, or forgot to bring the birth permit, or the maternal diet ordered by the doctor was forgotten. This kind of unreliability, at best, only creates trouble, and at worst, it will also cause harm to the mother and baby.
Eighth: bile small
The picture of giving birth to a child is not beautiful, and it is even very bloody.
For some bloody, timid dads, they may also be scared to faint. At this time, the doctor also has to distract himself from taking care of his father! It's really – a burden.
02 What should a man do when a woman gives birth to a child? Come over to give 2 points of advice
1. Prepare all the materials and supplies required for childbirth, hospitalization, etc., so that the mother can concentrate on giving birth
Pregnant mothers are very tired in the third trimester of pregnancy, especially when they are about to give birth.
Before going to the hospital to give birth, it is necessary to prepare all kinds of materials, maternity kits, etc. early. Dads should know the location of these things in advance, and then after the pregnant women start, the babies will immediately load the things into the car and then take the pregnant women to the hospital.
Let the pregnant women concentrate on giving birth to the baby, and the rest of the things that handle various materials, the fathers must be reliable!
2. Follow the requirements of the mother and follow the doctor's requirements
The mother is about to give birth, if the father really does not know how to do it, then feel at ease to be a "tool person".
On the one hand, follow the requirements of the mother, want to eat, think about what, take good care of the mother;
On the other hand, follow the doctor's request, go through the formalities, sign various signatures, observe the status of the mother, and so on.
Pistachio Mom message
A woman gets pregnant and gives birth to a baby, and only then does she know what kind of man she is married to.
As a husband and father, be reliable!
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