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It is said that giving birth to a child is a hurdle in a woman's life, and if you cross it, it is the peace of mother and child, happiness and harmony, and if you can't cross it, it is the ghost door in front of the Yama King's Palace, and there is a possibility of death at any time.
Therefore, in order to let their husbands experience their difficulties and feel the joy of the arrival of a new life, many women will ask their husbands to enter the delivery room to accompany the birth when giving birth.
In many large city hospitals, there are indeed paternity services, but how does it feel to accompany a man, many people come to say different things, and even some people complain that this is a psychological shadow that is difficult to erase in their lifetime.
When having children, is it necessary to let the husband accompany the birth? The people who came over told the truth
Mr. Zhang is a bao dad, when his wife was pregnant, Mr. Zhang booked a private maternity hospital for his wife, because he wanted to experience the precious moments of the baby's birth with his wife, Mr. Zhang chose the paternity program in the hospital.
In Mr. Zhang's view, paternity is a warm and happy thing, but he did not expect that after experiencing it once, Mr. Zhang would still have a tingling scalp in retrospect, and his mind was full of torn wounds from his wife's birth and blood on the mattress.
As a person who came over, Mr. Zhang said that the person who accompanied the birth must have a strong psychological quality, but obviously he was not qualified, and when he thought of the placenta delivered by his wife falling so bloodily at his feet, Mr. Zhang's psychology was cast with a lingering shadow.
Finally, Mr. Zhang said with chagrin that he would feel a little scared even if he was close to his wife now, and the pictures of childbirth were always haunting his mind, and he was unforgettable.
Will the husbands who accompany their wives to give birth leave a psychological shadow? Below this topic, many people have expressed their views:
@ Codename Galaxy: I was next to my wife when I gave birth, as a dowry husband, I think my wife is too difficult, too great, without any psychological shadow, will only hurt her more and more.
@ Morgan: I didn't have the courage to accompany the birth, and my wife didn't let me accompany the birth, she was afraid of scaring me.
@ Sanni: Women take their lives to have children, men really should have psychological shadows, if they really faint blood, don't go in.
@ Get by: After the birth, I was more nervous than my wife the whole time, but the moment the child came out to cut the umbilical cord, I was really excited and my hands were shaking, there was heartache, there was joy, there were tears.
What are the benefits of wife childbirth and husband's paternity?
First of all, the husband accompanies his wife into the delivery room to accompany the whole process of childbirth can effectively reduce the wife's fear during childbirth, alleviate the wife's nervous emotions, and the encouragement from the husband during the birth process can also help the wife to give birth smoothly.
Secondly, the husband's accompaniment helps to enhance the relationship between husband and wife, and only when the husband sees the pain suffered by the wife giving birth to the child will he sincerely feel sorry for the wife and realize the difficulty of the wife's birth.
In the later married life, the husband will also be more considerate of the wife and tolerate the wife in everything.
Finally, seeing the birth of the baby in person is an unforgettable feeling for the husband, and after going through this process, the husband will quickly enter the role of father, which is also the beginning of a good parent-child relationship.
Will men leave a psychological shadow when they accompany their wives to give birth?
In life, some paternity husbands have publicly stated that after witnessing the process of their wives giving birth, they will have different degrees of psychological pressure, and this pressure will even affect the life of the husband and wife, leaving a psychological shadow.
In fact, the impact of paternity on men varies from person to person, some men have poor psychological quality, and when they first enter the delivery room, they will be more nervous than their wives, and some people will be overwhelmed when they see blood.
This type of man is indeed not suitable for accompanying labor, because not only can not help, but will bring trouble to medical staff.
And if the husband has made sufficient preparations before the wife gives birth, and the psychological endurance after entering the delivery room is also strong, and the attention is focused on how to comfort the wife and how to cheer for the wife, then such a husband is very suitable for accompanying the wife to give birth.
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