I don't know if you have seen such a video recently, what kind of experience is it for husbands and wives to share the husband's birth on the day of giving birth?
The two couples in the video tell everyone about the experience of the day of giving birth, Chen Xiaogui believes that in his own production process, the husband's company will be at ease a lot, and the husband can also see their love crystallization for the first time, which is a happy and warm thing. But her husband didn't think so, and her voice just dropped.
The husband who was sitting next to him repeated the situation of the day's delivery to everyone, and while he exaggerated his hand, he said with a little disgust that there was such a big pool of blood that I was going to vomit at the scene.
When the child was born, the doctor also asked him to cut the umbilical cord, and his goosebumps fell to the ground when the knife went down to nourish the sound. He is very sure to tell fans that letting her husband compensate is tantamount to forcing him to divorce. So should my husband accompany you during childbirth?
Fertility is great, but the whole fertility process is not beautiful
Anyone who watches such a picture of the fertility process will be unforgettable. Such moments are very embarrassing, and many women do not want their husbands to see it with their own eyes.
If her husband's psychological quality is poor, seeing such a scene may be more nervous and afraid than lying in bed, so that her husband will have a psychological shadow and affect their husband and wife relationship in later life.
Many netizens said that after their husbands accompanied themselves to give birth, the relationship between the two had a different look.
Under what circumstances it is not recommended for the husband to accompany the birth
The first husband's physical condition is not allowed, he suffers from high blood pressure, heart disease, cold, etc., if the husband's physical condition does not allow him to accompany the whole process, then do not blame the husband too much, in such a tense state, it is coincidental that it is difficult to accept that an accident occurred, the medical staff will be caught off guard, in the end is to rescue the husband on the spot or to devote himself to the smooth delivery of the mother?
The second is the husband who is grumpy in daily life and cannot understand the doctor. The whole process of childbirth is a painful and long process, and no obstetrician does not want such a painful and long process to pass quickly. The hardships of this process are only passed by the mother with strong willpower, and it can be said that the doctor cannot help too much.
In daily life, the husband, who was originally grumpy, saw his wife's miserable appearance and was very distressed. He may turn the pain his wife is suffering to the doctors and nurses. If you loudly insult the doctor and nurse, it will not only not help the wife alleviate the pain, but also affect the doctor's judgment of the wife's emergency in childbirth.
The third will be the husband who faints blood, people with symptoms of blood sickness see blood is an innate fear, the whole process of production encounters blood is inevitable, if the husband faints at this time, neither can accompany the husband, they are also very afraid and afraid, it is better to wait anxiously outside the delivery room.
Women think that paternity can empower themselves
Many female celebrities will accompany their husbands when they give birth.
For example, Zhu Dan once said that when he was giving birth, her husband was around on Monday to count down for her, and as her husband's voice became louder during the countdown on Monday, his voice seemed to give her magical power.
Medina has said that at the most critical moment of childbirth, Jiang Chao will cooperate with the doctor's countdown and hold her hand to give her strength.
Perhaps the role of the husband's accompaniment capacity is minimal, and some netizens said that although the husband is next to him, he can't help a little, but he can scold him and pinch him, and he will feel much happier.
At this moment, the husband can be with him, and he can comfort them more than anyone's encouragement. Giving birth to a child is a ghost gate, and accidents may occur during childbirth, and they think that if they die in the delivery room, the last thing they want to see is their husband.
Avoiding the bloody scene can make the husband choose to accompany the birth halfway
Women in the process of childbirth can be roughly divided into three stages of labor, that is, cervical dilation period, fetal delivery period, placental delivery period. The husband can skip the second stage of labour, the delivery of the fetus.
When the wife is in the period of cervical dilation, this is the longest and most painful stage of the entire labor process, during which the husband must always be by her side, comfort her, and give her encouragement.
Skipping the second bloody picture of labor, this is a two-pronged way to accompany the wife without leaving a psychological shadow on the husband.
Other humanized hospitals cover the underside of the mother, and the husband accompanies the wife and does not see the bloody picture. Do you think a husband should accompany his wife in childbirth?