What kind of person a person will become in the future and what kind of life he will live depends on his childhood.
And parents and families play the most important roles in our childhood.
Some people say that 99% of the problems in children are actually the problems of parents.
A group of cartoons that are very widely circulated on Facebook list 11 manifestations of "bad parents", which deeply pokes at the pain points of Chinese parents!
Maybe you've experienced it too, so let's take a look.
01
If your child always deliberately disturbs you,
It's actually because you lack physical contact with him, you lack intimacy.
02
If your child lies,
In fact, this shows that you have overreacted to the mistakes he has made.
03
If your child lacks self-confidence,
It's actually because you give them more advice than encouragement.
04
If your child can't stick to himself,
In fact, because when they were young, you always criticized them in public education.
05
If you buy everything for your children, they will still go and get things that don't belong to them.
It's actually because you don't let them choose what they want.
06
If your child is cowardly, it's actually because you're helping them too fast.
Don't help your child clear every obstacle to their path to growth.
07
If your child is jealous,
That may be because you always compare other children to them.
08
If your child is easily angry,
That's actually because you don't give them enough praise, they can only get attention when they misbehave.
09
If your child doesn't respect other people's feelings,
That's because you always command them and don't respect their feelings.
10
If your child is always mysterious and doesn't tell you anything,
That's because you always love to hit them.
11
If your child is always rude and rude,
It was actually learned from parents or people around them.
The above 11 unwise behaviors exist to a greater or lesser extent by many chinese parents.
Therefore, it is recommended that you change it quickly and do not do it immediately!
Don't be a bad parent in your child's eyes!